Today is going to be another day I want you to watch instead of read. In this LIVE In-Field video filmed at a recent Bootcamp, I talk about 3 keys to becoming a master communicator. I go step-by-step through…

As I was walking Daphne on the beach the other day, I overheard a conversation that two guys who were walking near me were having. In that conversation, they were playing what I like to call “the speculation game.”

Have you ever had a conversation with someone in which you are pouring your heart out about something, and the other person makes an assumption about what you are saying based just on the surface stuff? Let me put out a very simple example of what I’m talking about.

For this week, Sunday is Q&A day on the blog. Here are two more great questions you’ve submitted to me. Remember, if you are on my subscriber list and want to submit a question for me to answer in future blogs, simply respond to any one of the newsletter emails with your question.

A lot of guys use the word “rejection” over and over again in their lives. My belief, however, is that there is no such thing as rejection. If another person doesn’t choose to be with you, they are not rejecting you. They are choosing to go in another direction.

Life is about attitude.

Think about football. Think about the quarterbacks who are successful. The ones that are successful have that attitude – “Fuck you. You picked my pass off? I don’t care. I’m coming back at you again in ten minutes anyway, and I’ll keep doing it.”

Brett Favre is notorious for that. Love him or hate him, he’ll throw so many games away that he plays. He’s 39, and look at his attitude. He’ll throw five interceptions in a game, and he’ll go fade back to pass and just do it again. He doesn’t care.

So there you are at the deli counter getting a ham sandwich, when that person you’re attracted to comes and stands next to you at the counter to order a turkey sandwich. You’ve seen them over and over again at the store, and you finally have the guts to turn and smile at them . [...]