Everything you do, everything you experience is about seduction.

From waking up in the morning to getting dressed, looking your best, and feeling your best.

When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you feel powerful, strong, sexy, and amazing?

Walking into work, saying hello to people with command, looking at people in the eyes, smiling, and enjoying your day is seductive.

Eating lunch by yourself, looking people in the eyes, being sure of who you are, being strong, being powerful to your core—these are all seductive traits.

Life is all about seduction.  

The better you seduce, the more money you make.

The better you seduce, the more friends you have.

The better you seduce, the more relationships you experience and the greater love you can feel.

Seduction works in all aspects of life, from getting discounts, upgrades, getting great customer service, and having people respect you in all ways.

You have to master what a great seducer does.

Master seducers are strong and self-aware and they know that they can have and do whatever they want. It’s a powerful way to live. People sense that power, and women can’t resist it.

I urge you to not only work on your game with women, but work on your life game, so that you can walk around with the power of a great seducer.

It’s all about inner game. If you truly know that you can do and be anything, what is there to worry about?

And if you’re not worried, then you’re not in your head.

When you’re not in your head, all of your personal energy and charisma is being expressed without filter. And that’s really the ultimate goal.

Honestly express yourself.

Be authentic.

Be you.

I’m not even talking about potential mates…

…just people in general.

Watch this quick video, drop your fears, and get juiced about meeting people and having fun!

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What are you up to today?

You know what that means!

Today I answer important questions about PUA tactics…(!)

…and whether or not one should date when in a personal funk.

It’s the Friday Q&A!

By the way, you can watch past Q&A’s here on the blog:

http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/category/video-2/

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You’ve heard the challenge for the week: give me your best sext message.

You don’t want all of them–just the really hot one right?

Sure, but if you don’t know how to engage the group as a whole, you’re dead in the water.

Watch this undercover video as I breakdown an approach:

Pretty simple right?

What are some great ways that you’ve engaged the friend of someone you really liked?

Have you ever been the friend?

Let me know in the comments below.

You know what she’s thinking?  She’s wondering, “Why doesn’t he talk to me? Why does he stare at me?  Why is he constantly looking at me but never saying a word?  Is he mute? Is he terrified?  Does he speak Russian and not speak a word of English?”

Here’s what funny: every morning I wake up and I walk for a few miles and I see the same woman every single day.  I look at her, sometimes I smile, and sometimes I don’t.  

So today, I looked at her and said hello, and she looks at me—eyes light up, face lights up—and she says “Hi,” like it was a relief that I finally talked to her.  I mean, come on guys, stop trying to always think about what to say and just say, “Good morning. Hello.”

If you see somebody over and over again the best conversation starter is not the most clever thing you can think of, it’s just a simple “Hey, Hi, Good morning, I’m a normal human being.  I know how to say good morning. It’s one of the first things I learned when I watched Sesame Street when I was a kid.”

Don’t overcomplicate it.  Make it simple. And if you make it simple, you’ll start building up your confidence and your social network.  “Good morning” leads to “Hey, how are you doing today?” or “I see you all the time walking.” It leads to a conversation the next time.

So stop appearing to be this neurotic freak that scares her because you never talk to her and just stare at her, and start being the human being.

It’s that simple.

Yesterday we all went to Spitalfields Market, and everyone met so many cool women. For those of you who are in London, Spitalfields is a must. I ate so much great food again, I really stuffed myself. Then we sat to digest for a bit as I lead a really “heavy” discussion on dating!! Bo-bump-bump…pshhh!
You know that sound, that “bo-bump-bump” drum sound you hear at a bad comedy show? You know what “bo-bump-bump” is? That’s not just reserved for late-night talk shows, it’s also you when you become Punch-Line Guy.

Are you the guy that read somewhere on the Internet that women are really attracted to the funny guy? So now, in every conversation you have, you always want to make sure that you can show you’re funny, that you get the punch line out as quickly as possible? Basically you are punch line guy. You’re that guy who, within a minute of a conversation, whatever the topic, you have to end the conversation with this funny joke (well, at least that you think it’s funny).

Here’s the deal guys: That really takes both you and her out of a moment that could have been special. Punch-line guys tend to kill conversations because there’s not much to go on after you spew your cheesy punch-line. Especially if the punch line wasn’t that funny, maybe she’ll chuckle a little bit and then she’ll just realize the conversation is ending.
What most punch-line guys do is they just end the conversation with that mediocre punch line, they don’t keep it rolling. They take a perfectly good conversation and they feel like they have to spit the joke out somewhere to show her that they’re funny.

The reality is that you have plenty of chances to show her that you’re funny—at the right moments. But your problem is that you can’t risk waiting to be naturally funny, waiting to be funny at all the right moments. You have to do it now, you have to try to create the punch line moment because this is the ONLY moment to show her you’re worth getting to know.
I know what this is like because I used to be punch line guy. I was the class clown, I used to sit back and wait for my punch line in class. When I was first learning to talk to women, I’d always anticipate and wait for the punch line. I’d throw it out there and expect a big laugh but I never realized, when I was younger, that actually killed a lot of good conversations because I was killing the momentum.

All the punch line does is show that you’re not really listening and adding the conversation, it just shows that you want to be the center of attention, because that’s what punch line guy really is. He wants to be validated, he wants people to think he’s funny, and he wants to be the center of attention. So the next time you have your punch line guy moment, think to yourself, Is this really a proper moment for the punch line? Think about that. Will it keep the conversation flowing, or will it end the conversation like it has in the past?

So you’ve got her phone number. Now closing and sealing the deal, getting them to go out with you—that’s only part of the picture.

How good are you at building up sexual tension after the first date? Do you even understand what sexual tension is all about?

I have something really special for you guys on today’s podcast. It’s a phone call that you can listen in. My head coach Shogo—and he’s my head coach for a reason—he decided that he’d call a woman up who he just started dating and allow ALL of you guys to listen in, so you can understand exactly what it’s like to build real sexual tension. To get her absolutely excited to see him the next time and to really show you guys how to amplify sexual tension when you’re on the phone with a woman.

Check it out and listen to the ex-lawyer do his thing.

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Shogo here with another weekend blog!

For all you East Coast people, hope you’re keeping sheltered up for the vicious eye of the tiger that’s headed your way this weekend.

David and I are here in LA this morning getting ready for another amazing boot camp! I just went for a run on the beach, the weather is great out here this weekend, and I can already tell this weekend’s boot camp is going to be an amazing experience for everyone.

No to toot my own horn, but our events are always an amazing experience. Last month a very cool guy who came out to the New York seminar, whose name will remain anonymous, asked me how it is that I am able speak my mind in front of women with ease. He asked me how it’s possible that I can say whatever I’m thinking in the moment and not hesitate or be worried that I’m going to be offensive or sound like a pig.

This was a great question, and something that I want to share with all of you guys. It’s an important topic to address, especially if you’re out not just approaching women, but getting into real conversations, going out on dates, and talking to women in bars.

Shogo In Nightgame Mode

The thing that’s holding back a lot of guys from freeing up and speaking their mind is that they believe their own inner thoughts will be offensive to others. They think that if other people find out what they’re REALLY thinking, especially women, that they will be seen as a huge pervert. A sicko. An asshole who just wants to get in her pants.

So what happens is that guys get all nervous in front of women, afraid that the woman they’re talking to will find out about all those thoughts and all that chatter going off inside their brain, so they make something up. They come up with lines, they try to be funny, they pretend to be cool and disinterested, and then what happens is that they never let their true selves out.

But the fact is that you don’t have to be squeaky clean. If you really want to get good at this, you gotta let your true self out. You have to say what you’re thinking, no matter what ends up coming out of your mouth. You’re not an asshole or a freak, deep down inside you know you’re actually a really great guy, so start tapping into that part of you. You have to trust that part inside of you.

You have to be unapologetic for who you are. If you’ve never been able to get a girlfriend, or you can’t get past the second date, or you constantly get blown off at bars when you approach women, it isn’t because you’re deficient in something. It’s not because there’s some secret pickup information you don’t know. It’s because you’re covering yourself up. You have a hidden agenda when you’re talking to women that you’re interested in—sure she’s attractive, sure you’d like to have sex with her, sure you’d like to get to know her more—but that agenda really needs to come out into the open. And the rest will follow.

You will feel so much better talking to people.

For those of you who had the Fourth off, did you really maximize the three-day weekend?

If you’re listening in another country and you don’t celebrate American Independence Day, did you have a great weekend as well?

We’re six months into the year now, the new year is long gone. New Year’s Resolutions—do you even remember those?

Now that 2011 is in full swing, I want you to really ask yourself if you are achieving the kind of results you want to achieve with women? Are you going on as many dates as you would like? Are you getting out of the house, are you meeting new people, are you making great connections with the kind of women you would like?

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If your answer to any of those is “no”, I want you to listen closely to today’s podcast. You need to kick yourself into gear. You need to get motivated. You need to take action immediately and stop wasting time. Summer is in full swing now, and there’s no reason for you to waste another minute of it.

So take in today’s podcast and use it to get started on changing the course of your dating life today! The year is half over guys. Six months from now, you don’t want to be the guy making the same New Year’s Resolutions all over again pickup, pua, pickup women.

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“Wow I need to get sexual with her right now so she gets turned onto me”

So you space out for a second and you stop listening to what she is saying.

You then go into deep thought moment and think.

“How can i stop this conversation right now and start talking sexual”

So she is in the middle of a great story, sharing with you her travels across the world and all of a sudden you stop her in mid sentence and change the flow of a great conversation to something sexual.

She looks at you and thinks.

What the @$%^ is this guy talking about?

How many more questions am I going to get about “escalation”? So many of you guys are really just stuck on Pua Island–or PUA, as you call it.

I been asked this question about 10,000 times: Hey David, how do you sexually escalate on the first date?

Well, here’s an option: you can sit there across from her like Chester Chester the Child Molester and stare at her and tell her how wonderful her little titties look and how that great little sweater she picked out for the day really cups her breasts. You can recite some ridiculous made-up story that you spent 15 hours infusing with subliminal sex words to trick her into bed with you. Or when she goes to the bathroom you can look at her and tell her how you can just picture her G-string and what you would do with it, how you’re going to rip it off with your teeth and use it as dental floss later on.

How To Create Romance

Then, as she’s calling the police or texting her friends about the freak sitting across from her, you can apologize to her and say, “Gee, I’m so sorry for being such a pathetic pervert trying to escalate with you like a typical Pua.”

Or you can do what a man would do: you can look directly in her eyes, you can listen to her because you’re actually interested in who she is and what she’s all about as a person, and you can smile confidently because you’re having an amazing time together.

When she stands up to go to the bathroom, you can give her a sly look, an intriguing little smile, and she’ll wonder what the hell is going on in your mind. When she gets back, you can give her another smile again, and she’ll wonder what that smile is all about. You can continue to listen to her and share what’s really on your mind and build on the conversation, learn a little bit more about each other, actually talk to her and connect with her like a person. You can behave like a human being, like most people, instead of a sex-starved escalation machine.

Or you can continue to be some Pua wannabe, talking about how wet and hard you are and how you want to floss your teeth with her G-string after dinner.

That’s it for today.