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Posts Tagged ‘power of now’

 
 

Why You Will Never Get Laid

Tuesday, April 14th, 2009

Are you ego-driven? Are you one of those people whose egos are so big that you are Mr. or Ms. Know-it-All? Do you think that everything that you do is the right way to do it?

Do you constantly criticize others on things that you’re clueless about? Are you one of those know-it-alls that think you can run a business better than your boss can – even if you’ve never worked in a business like that before?

Or are you one of those people who, when someone asks you, “If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?” you answer, “nothing at all”?

You’re all ego. You’re 100% ego-driven. Your ego is so large that you can’t even accept yourself for who you are – including your faults.

You basically walk around all day long creating lies. You’re trying to hide behind things that you don’t know about quite yet – your ego is just that large. And everyone can see through it.

The people I respect the most in my life are the people who are real. I like to attract real people into my life. I like to attract people who are humble – people who are open.

Ego is the number one thing that can destroy us. Dr. Wayne Dyer – he’s someone who I’ve met and become friends with through my girlfriend – talks about ego in a lot of his books. I also talk about ego in a lot of my products.

Ego is something that you need to drop every single day. In my How to Become a Master Communicator course, you’ll learn about the ego and how to drop it. It teaches you how to be a REAL person – because that is what people are attracted to.

Nobody’s perfect. If you think that you are, it’s just your ego preventing you from growing as a person.

Back Talkers

Tuesday, April 7th, 2009

Are you a back talker?

That is, are you somebody who won’t talk to people to their face – so you talk shit about them behind their back?

There is nothing I disrespect more than back talking. I don’t respect someone who can’t look me in the eyes and talk to me directly – someone who badmouths me behind my back. I find that to be the most disgraceful way of addressing something.

I don’t honor people who talk behind other people’s backs. I don’t honor people who don’t look me in the eyes and tell me what is on their mind. I don’t respect somebody who can’t talk to me face-to-face.

If anyone has an issue with me, I want to hear about it. I want to discuss it, because that is what a real friend would do.

Do you know anyone who is a real back talker? Or are you somebody that has been a chicken in life and decided to talk behind people’s backs?

Really, I think that back talking shows something important about your personality. I think it shows something about your development and your confidence level. A genuinely confident person will talk to somebody about the things that bother him or her. They won’t talk shit about somebody.

Shit talkers and back talkers are people who are really insecure. These are people who don’t really know themselves.

Do you know of any back talkers in your life? Or have you been one at times?

We’ve all talked shit about people behind their backs before. We’ve all done it. But hopefully most of us have stopped doing it – it really is one of the ugliest traits anyone can have.

Two Magical Words

Monday, April 6th, 2009

I woke up this morning to a great email from a past bootcamp client. As part of my Monday routine I have to clear out a ton of emails from the weekend and then once I do that, I can actually read what is important.

I read this message and right away I knew it was today’s post.
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Be Confident

Wednesday, March 25th, 2009

I just got off the phone with a client and I had to share this with all of you.

I could not wait till tomorrows blog……I think all of you will enjoy this!

There is no reason in life to take things personally.

If you truly respect yourself – if you really think that you’re a great person – then if someone else doesn’t like you, you won’t take it personally.

It just means that you might have some stuff to work on. You have some stuff to do.

Life is just like a mirror – we attract exactly who we are so we can learn the lessons we’re ready to learn.

So if you’re getting blown off on a regular basis and you’re feeling really bummed and obsessing over it, there is a lesson there that you haven’t yet embraced. You haven’t looked deep enough into it. (more…)

4 Ways To Attract More Women Through Outcome Independence

Saturday, January 3rd, 2009

Men tend to be very outcome dependent. Many men approach women with one goal in mind: to get their phone number. Such men think if they approach a woman, they must get her phone number in order for that approach to have been successful. These men, in fact, will base their entire assessment of an encounter on whether a woman gives them her phone number. This type of mindset is what I’m referring to when I talk about outcome dependence.
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