And do you know what always happens the first night of bootcamp?

Right away I have to deprogram a few of the guys.

So how do i deprogram them?

I basically take their crutches away and get them to walk on there own without the use of pick up lines!

You all know how I feel about pickup lines so last night I was all about deprogramming some guys minds.

So how can I help you and your mind today?

Glad you asked.

Today’s video has all the answers!

So I’m sitting with a friend outside of Whole Foods in Venice Beach recently, just taking a break from life, and we started talking about these so-called “Natural Game” guys. Really, we were talking about how interesting it is that they call it “natural game” in the first place.

We talked about how telling it is that they call it “natural game,” because there is no game about being natural. As most of you know, I’ve spent the last eleven years teaching guys not to use all the “pickup” crap. I have always been about teaching people how to be naturally comfortable and to create natural attraction through their own authentic self-confidence.

I never called what I teach “natural game” because what I teach is not a game. The fact is that all these copycat David Wygant’s running around teaching what they claim is a “new thing” called “natural game,” are mostly young boys in their early 20′s trying to be dating gurus. All they’re really doing is calling what they were already teaching by a different name – “natural game.”

The bottom line, guys, is that it’s not a game. Being able to totally, comfortably and confidently meet and connect with women at the deepest level is not a game.

This is my open letter to all the guys. It’s not a game, it’s life. Life is all about real confidence. Life is all about understanding who you are as a person, developing your strengths, and accepting (then working on) your weaknesses.

So life is not about playing a “game” whether you call it “natural game” or anything else. Think about it this way: If “natural game” truly was natural, then it would not still involve men using silly nicknames instead of being who they really are. That’s my take on it . . . so comment away!

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Women look good, men look better – everybody thinks that they’re just going to go out and pick up somebody. It’s pickup season.

But the fact of the matter is that if you look at it as pickup season, you are NOT going to meet anybody!

So, without further ado, here are ten of the worst pickup lines we have ever heard in our entire lives:

A woman and her mother are walking down the street. Of course, the old cliché is, “what are you two, sisters?” Like they haven’t heard that a thousand times! And then all of a sudden the guy makes the comeback, “oh no way, I knew you guys were sisters!” Meanwhile, the woman clearly looks 70 and the daughter clearly looks 40 – they don’t look like sisters. But thanks for the flattery.

How about another bad pickup line – walking up to a woman and saying, “you’re beautiful!” And then you have absolutely no comeback after that. You say, “you’re beautiful,” she says, “thank you,” and what happens next? No conversation.

Or how about, “don’t I know you from somewhere?” She knows you don’t know her from anywhere, and she’s heard that about a thousand times! You’re the third guy today to say that, so why are you bothering?

Another bad pickup line: “can I buy you a drink?” Does she look homeless? Why don’t you just buy her dinner? Do you go into a clothing store, walk up to a woman and say, “can I buy you a dress?” “Can I buy you a top?” Lame. They’ve seen it a thousand times before – she’s going to take the drink and run.

Here’s another one: you walk up to a woman on the street and say, “excuse me, weren’t you at the barbeque last Sunday?” I’ve actually seen guys use that one! A woman will point-blank look at him and say, “no, I was out of town.” And then she’ll tell you everything she was doing last weekend, too! So in a way, it is such a bad pickup line that it actually might work!

Another great bad pickup line: “excuse me, do you have the time?” Meanwhile, you’re so unobservant, you didn’t even realize that she doesn’t have a watch! And your carrying your cell phone in your hand which has a clock attached to it! That’s a bad pickup line!

Here another bad one: “excuse me, do I know you from somewhere? Aren’t you my future ex-girlfriend?” She’s heard that one before. And you know what? She is your future ex-girlfriend, starting from the second you utter that line!

Another one would be: “excuse me, can I have your number, because I just lost mine!” That’s a winner. You have to break that down a little bit. It doesn’t even make any sense that someone would walk over there and say that! “Excuse me, I lost my number, can I have yours?” It makes no sense at all.

Here’s another good pickup line: a guy walks into a coffee shop and sees four girls sitting around, having a cup of coffee. The guy walks over and says, “hey, what are you guys doing, having coffee?” I’ve seen that happen so many times.

There’s the power of observation, and then there is the power of being a dunce. What is that? Are you girls having coffee? No, it’s not coffee…