So what am I talking about here? What is the power of the penis?

I have a question for all the guys reading this — and I want you to be 100% honest with yourself as you answer it. How many of you guys get rock hard the second you start making out with a girl? How many of you get rock hard the minute you see a woman naked?

How many of you get hard at the drop of a hat? You might thing that is the power of the penis, i.e., the power to get hard right away. In reality, I don’t think it is.

I think the fact that a lot of guys get hard right away makes women lazy. It really does, because women get used to that and used to the fact that they don’t have to do much of anything.

A woman doesn’t really have to worry about foreplay, because technically you are ramped, amped, and ready. So now you’re spending the majority of time getting her ramped up, and you are remaining hard the entire time because you lack the power of the penis.

I have talked to a lot of women, and I’ve found that they have no issues with men being able to get hard. They even admit that this makes them a bit lazy.

The Power Of The Penis

So you need to learn how to turn the tables. Just as a woman makes you work — and a woman does make you work building up her level of passion — it is perfectly okay to make the woman do a little work as well. Women require slow foreplay and building up their desire before you even go for the clit.

It’s called the power of the clit. If you go directly for the clit, a woman doesn’t like it because she’s not ready yet for that.

It’s funny when the roles are reversed, and the man possesses what I consider to be the power of the penis. Having the power of the penis means that your penis doesn’t stand at attention for just any little boob or kiss.

You are going to have to work him. You are going to have to earn it.

Make a woman earn your erection. Make her work for it just like you work to get her turned on and wet.

Make her kiss your neck. Make her kiss your body. Make her tease you. Make her earn your erection.

It is going to make her a far better lover. It’s also going to turn her on more in the long run than having you just stand there erect 24/7 like an American Flag.

So make her earn it. Learn to have the power of the penis.

Learn to control your erection. Learn to give her centimeter by centimeter, millimeter by millimeter, and inch by inch.

Make her earn your penis and work hard at it, because a lot of women are very lazy and they don’t want to work. By doing that you are going to have longer, more erotic and more enjoyable sex.

Granted, quickies are fine. Even for a quickie, though, make her earn it just a little bit.

Make her tell you how badly she wants you instead of just being erect and ready 24/7. That is understanding the power of the penis.

If this is your first reaction then you are a man who is controlled by his little man downstairs.

Women read this energy and run for the hills.

Men always ask me how to escalate sexually within the first few minutes of meeting women.

They think they need to touch or to talk sex to get a woman going.

What I am going to share with you today,is how to engage all of her senses and how to get your mind in control of you and not your penis in control of you!

In reality, what is going on in that situation is that your penis is talking to you. It is saying, “Hey, Mr. Big Head up there. Yeah, you between the shoulders. Mr. Penis here. Listen, man, I think this girl is really hot and really want to get into her. So try not to f^*k it up this time. Please don’t say the wrong thing, because I really want to hit that vagina tonight. Please don’t f^*k it up and say that stupid thing you said last time you approached a woman. Play it safe this time.”

This is what your penis is doing. Your penis is controlling your head. If it wasn’t, then your head would be thinking “I’m a cool guy. Man, I’m awesome. I’m great. There is a pretty girl over there, but who cares? There are tons of pretty girls in the world. I’m just looking for the one I can really connect with who really gets me. Let me go over and talk to her and see what she’s all about. Let’s see if I even like her at all. I’ll ask her out for a cup of coffee and get to know her a little bit.”

That is what the rational mind would be saying. The problem, however, is that we are so driven by what’s inside our pants. We are so driven by Mr. Penis. Since Mr. Penis doesn’t understand anything rational, he gives his power away every single time.

So the next time you see a good-looking woman, stop looking for validation. Stop listening to Mr. Penis. When you do that, you will realize that you are an amazing person.

This is exactly what I did so that my penis never controlled how successful my approaches were. CLICK HERE to listen to me go through it step-by-step.

Despite this, you tend to listen to this person over and over again when it comes to meeting women. You know what happens every time you listen to this person. You always end up saying the wrong thing.

So here’s how to eliminate this dick in your life. Really, no one should have a dick as a friend, especially someone who has friends like these — a couple of nuts who should be on Prozac and an asshole who is always full of it.

You need to listen to today’s podcast really understand how to immediately eliminate this person from your life.

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Have a great Thursday!

Mr. Penis really is the cause of all of your monkey chatter.

Have you ever been to the zoo? Have you seen what monkeys do all day long? They eat and they play with their penis.

It’s time to put the penis away and speak from your heart.

If you want to stop being a monkey and kill the monkey chatter forever, then you need to listen to today’s podcast.

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I go more in depth about how to get rid of your monkey chatter in my Men’s “What’s Your Excuse?” program

So many men are so obsessed about getting into a woman’s pants that they miss business opportunities all of the time. For instance, let’s say you’re trying to start your own business.

The key to starting a business is customers – if you don’t have customers, you won’t have a business. So, technically, every person you meet is a potential customer – maybe not today, but down the road.

Life is about investing. I look at life like the stock market.

Some stocks you buy, wanting them to pop in five minutes, and then you want to bail out. I look at those as like having a one-night stand. You buy this stock, it goes up $2, you get in and you get out. You get a little bit of a high and you’re done. That’s like getting laid that night.

Other stocks you buy because you know the value of the company. You know it’s undervalued at the moment, but you’re making an investment in the company for the future.

It’s the same thing that happens in dating. When you’re dating someone, you’re making an investment in the moment for the future. Everybody you meet has some type of potential for you down the road.

So here’s what you should do. Get the business card of everyone you meet, and on the back of each card write down the following three things: (1) Where you met them, (2) when you met them and (3) three personal things you learned about them (e.g., what they like to do).

Let’s say four years down the road you open up your own business. Every person you’ve met over the last four years now sits in a stack of business cards on your desk.

Open up a Gmail account and enter all of these people into your address book. For each person input their name, address, phone number, email and all the things you noted about them on the back of the business card. Then when you’re working 75 hours a week trying to build your business, you can write personalized emails to all those people you met.

You can write emails like, “Hey Joe, greet meeting you. Remember we met about four years ago in Georgetown? It was interesting, we had this great conversation about French wine and I actually went out and bought two bottles that you recommended. I never emailed you to say thank you, but here it is! Listen, I just opened up my own financial planning business, and I’m reaching out to everyone because this is a real passion of mine. Whether you’re looking to invest now or in the future, I’d love to keep you abreast of things. I’m writing a newsletter that I’d like to send out to you. If you’d ever like to talk investments with me, then let’s get together sometime.” Then end it with “your friend,” “truly,” “see you soon,” or something else very personal.

So what does this mean? It means that every day, you’re out there cultivating potential clients and dates. You might meet a potential client on a Wednesday, and he may lay $1 million on you Thursday (which is like getting laid right away). Another one might take ten years to get (which is more like a relationship).

Regardless, you cultivate them the same way. Every single person you meet has to go into your database.

Even the person who does hire you right away is an important relationship to cultivate and maintain, because you want to keep them coming back for more. It’s like great foreplay. If you please them and they come back for more, that means you’ve essentially f*^ked them really well and left them very satisfied.

You’ve given them really good foreplay. You’ve gotten to know them — their body and their mind. You’ve gotten them off, they loved it and now they’re back for more.

Life if about treating everyone well. Don’t do business with someone that you don’t like. I tell people that all of the time. That’s why I speak to people on the phone before I do business with them. I have to see if I like them. If I like them, I’ll want to work with them.

To me, it’s a relationship that can last forever. If you do business with friends, than it’s like it’s not really business. Friends trust friends. That’s really what it comes down to in the end.

This dating and sex analogy is a bit weird to think about at first, but it’s true. You just have to make everybody feel good.

I don’t care who makes it from the National League, because the Yankees are winning it all this year. You can take that prediction to the bank . . . and maybe even to the bedroom.

Life is not fair.  The other night I was having a conversation with someone about sex. I’m not going to tell you all the specifics, other than to tell you that after that discussion, I was absolutely orgasm envious! So let’s talk about orgasms, and I will tell you the reason why I’m orgasm envious.

By the way, if I could have one wish it would be that I could have a vagina for a day. I just think it would be so much fun. I already know exactly what kind of orgasms I’d want to have. I’d love to know how to have multiple orgasms through all different ways.

I’d want to have a g-spot orgasm. Of course there is the clitoris, so I’d want at least one clitoral orgasm (since the only reason it exists is for pleasure). Then there is this other place way back in the bowels of the vagina that supposedly can create a whole other type of orgasm.

I mean, give me a break. Right there, that’s three different kinds of orgasms! We men only get one kind.

I really don’t, however, want to talk today about the unfairness of orgasm counts between the sexes. What I really want to talk about today is sexual prime.

By the time men hit the age of 25, they are basically out of their sexual prime. Age 25? Half of the guys out there don’t even get laid enough to enjoy their sexual prime while they’re in it. Then by the time they are getting enough sex, they are already out of their sexual prime.

Women, on the other hand, don’t hit their sexual prime until they are around 37 years old. Think about the way that balances out.

By the time a guy is 37 years old, he isn’t exactly producing the same amount of “little swimmers” as he used to produce. Not only that, he doesn’t really want to have sex five times a day anymore (while women at that same age are machines!).

It’s no wonder that 37 year old women are the number one consumers of vibrators. They can basically vibrate their day away.

It’s really not fair the way things line up here. It really seems like things are very askew. It’s no wonder that there are so many cougars running around out there.

If I were a 37 year old woman who was hanging out with a Viagra-infused 55 year old guy with no stamina, I would certainly go find myself a young buck. I mean look at Demi Moore.

Don’t ever give her a hard time. She has a guy who is (whoops, I mean was) in his sexual prime. Wait, she may need to go find someone even younger. Justin Timberlake and Zach Efron, Demi Moore may be calling you really soon.

All joking aside, it just doesn’t seem right how the sexual prime thing is set up. Is this God’s way of punishing us? Someone was being mean when they designed the penis and the vagina. Why aren’t those two things created to be in alignment with one another?

Can all the guys remember when you were 18 and you basically would hump the air every five seconds (almost like a dog that humps the air all the time)? The reason why you were humping air was because you constantly wanted your dick to be touched.

I remember when I was 18 years old. I was so penis conscious, it was ridiculous. I felt my penis nonstop. No, I don’t mean that I touched my penis nonstop. I was just aware of it nonstop.

My penis led my life. It made me sleep with some really iffy women. It wasn’t my idea to sleep with them. It was my penis’ idea.

Not only that, but some guys can’t snuggle with a woman until they hit 28 years old. When you are a male who is 22 or 23 years old and your girlfriend asks you to snuggle, you have to go to the bathroom and snap a load off before you can do it.

This sexual prime gap between men and women just does not seem fair. Something is kharmically wrong here! It’s a mean joke. It’s like our sexual primes should have been matched.

Then again, some of this seeming mismatch may actually have been designed better than we thought. So although a guy past his sexual prime may no longer be able to pump and grind five times in one night, he can really satisfy a woman during the one time they do it and will be more likely to want to engage in a lot more of the foreplay that women crave so much.

Dear David Letterman,

Put your penis back in your pants, start talking to your wife and stop communicating with the American public about all of this. The American public does not need to care about why you cheated or hear your public apology, because they’re going to judge you anyway. We live in a very judgmental society.

So, David Letterman, I enjoy your comedy but I couldn’t care less about where you stick your penis. The fact is that you and your wife have a lot to work on with your marriage and your relationship.

It’s time you and your wife took this behind the scenes. Then you should admit why you repeatedly cheated on her for the past 23 years with cubical production assistants.

Your Friend,

David Wygant

For the rest of you, why do you even care about David Letterman and where he puts his pecker? I don’t really care about David Letterman’s pecker.

I don’t even want to see it to tell you the truth, because it reminds me of something that I saw in my youth that scared the hell out of me. I was in my country club’s bathroom one time and I saw a 65 year-old guy with gray hair all over him — on his chest and on his balls that went down to his knees. I don’t really want to ever see old man penis again. At least I’ve been doing male Kegel exercises so I don’t have that problem.

So let’s talk about what’s really going on here and what cheating is to you. I truly believe that people cheat for a reason — whether it’s something emotional, lack of sex or just for the thrill of it.

Before I go deeper into how I feel about cheaters and what I think cheating is really all about, I’m going to tell you something important. If you are someone who has been cheated on over and over throughout your life, you need to look in the mirror because it has happened because of something you’re doing.

You need to listen to today’s podcast to find out exactly what that is, and what else I have to say on this topic of cheating. You’re going to be shocked at what I go over in this podcast.

It is absolutely going to blow you away, and what I tell you about cheaters is going to rock your world. What I tell you about David Letterman will make you think twice about your late night TV choices!

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