So what am I talking about here? What is the power of the penis?

I have a question for all the guys reading this — and I want you to be 100% honest with yourself as you answer it. How many of you guys get rock hard the second you start making out with a girl? How many of you get rock hard the minute you see a woman naked?

How many of you get hard at the drop of a hat? You might thing that is the power of the penis, i.e., the power to get hard right away. In reality, I don’t think it is.

I think the fact that a lot of guys get hard right away makes women lazy. It really does, because women get used to that and used to the fact that they don’t have to do much of anything.

A woman doesn’t really have to worry about foreplay, because technically you are ramped, amped, and ready. So now you’re spending the majority of time getting her ramped up, and you are remaining hard the entire time because you lack the power of the penis.

I have talked to a lot of women, and I’ve found that they have no issues with men being able to get hard. They even admit that this makes them a bit lazy.

The Power Of The Penis

So you need to learn how to turn the tables. Just as a woman makes you work — and a woman does make you work building up her level of passion — it is perfectly okay to make the woman do a little work as well. Women require slow foreplay and building up their desire before you even go for the clit.

It’s called the power of the clit. If you go directly for the clit, a woman doesn’t like it because she’s not ready yet for that.

It’s funny when the roles are reversed, and the man possesses what I consider to be the power of the penis. Having the power of the penis means that your penis doesn’t stand at attention for just any little boob or kiss.

You are going to have to work him. You are going to have to earn it.

Make a woman earn your erection. Make her work for it just like you work to get her turned on and wet.

Make her kiss your neck. Make her kiss your body. Make her tease you. Make her earn your erection.

It is going to make her a far better lover. It’s also going to turn her on more in the long run than having you just stand there erect 24/7 like an American Flag.

So make her earn it. Learn to have the power of the penis.

Learn to control your erection. Learn to give her centimeter by centimeter, millimeter by millimeter, and inch by inch.

Make her earn your penis and work hard at it, because a lot of women are very lazy and they don’t want to work. By doing that you are going to have longer, more erotic and more enjoyable sex.

Granted, quickies are fine. Even for a quickie, though, make her earn it just a little bit.

Make her tell you how badly she wants you instead of just being erect and ready 24/7. That is understanding the power of the penis.

We started talking about life, women and all the things about which guys usually talk. Then we started talking about sex.

Specifically, we started talking about the differences between how men and women view and react to sex. For example, a man can leave the house at 7:00 am, go off to work for twelve hours, come home and mow the lawn. If at 11:00 pm his partner says she wants sex, what will the man do?

Even if he’s had a long day, the man is going to rally. He’s going to have sex, because a man never turns down sex.

A woman can have the same twelve hour day — whether it’s working outside the home or taking care of the kids. She will put the kids to bed at 7:00 pm, and her partner may try to initiate sex at 9:00 pm.

Many woman in that situation will say that it’s been a long day and she’s too tired to have sex. A woman will turn down sex. Men will never turn down sex.

What I find so funny about this is that women have multiple orgasms. Why would you ever turn down sex if you can have multiple orgasms?

Men have one orgasm. Women can have two, three, four and even five orgasms.

If men had multiple orgasms, they wouldn’t get anything else done. They’d be orgasming the day away and enjoying themselves, and they’d never be able to get any work done.

Forget about household chores. Forget about going to work. Forget about getting the kids off to school. A man would be having sex 24/7.

It is kind of unfair how things are. That’s life though.

When a woman is tired, she tends to say no to having sex. If a woman asks a man for sex, he will never turn down sex no matter how tired he is. We really need to line up the sexes a little better.

Enjoy this podcast, it was something I really debated on sharing, but a recent email from someone struggling to satisfy women sexually persuaded me to share this.

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I don’t know how pancakes and sex ever came into the conversation, but I was laughing. I remember from about age 18 to age 23, it wasn’t having sex once a day. It was more like do it now, then do it again in twenty minutes . . . then do it again in another twenty minutes.

I remember by the fourth time screwing in a day, I was basically pounding for forty minutes. I felt so good to be able to say that I could f^*k for forty straight minutes.

The poor girl would be laying there screaming and yelling. I of course thought screaming and yelling was from pleasure. The screaming and yelling was because she was getting so raw. Forty minutes is a long time for anybody.

Four times in a row, and that’s 160 minutes of screwing. I mean, the poor woman was moaning and groaning — yes out of pleasure part of the time, but mostly out of pure pain because she was getting wet and dry and wet and dry. I would just keep going and going and going like the young testosterone filled man that I was.

Let’s practice quality over quantity when it comes down to sex. Let’s do it in all areas of our lives. Quality over quantity is much better.

So if you’re going to have sex, make sure it’s the best sex session you can have. Have some good foreplay.

If you’re a guy, make sure you get her to cum first. That way, she’s more sensitive when you go in there and you are able to also give her a g-spot orgasm.

If you’re a woman, make sure you spend some quality time giving him some foreplay as well. Tease him sufficiently, so that when he does have sex with you he’s all ready to go.

Start having fun together. Even a quickie can be quality.

Back them, a quickie was doing it then twenty minutes later doing it quickly again. It’s not a double quickie. It’s called a quickie for a reason.

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It’s amazing what a good orgasm will do. I’m not talking about self-administered orgasms.

To tell you the truth, those kind of orgasms are lame. They really are.

It doesn’t take much skill to plug a vibrator into the wall, put it on your clit and fifteen seconds later scream “Ohhhhhh!” as you come. Bravo! Let me give you a standing ovation. Also, to the men out there who are beating off in the middle of the day over the sink with hand lotion they stole from their grandmother, I say get real!

Those are not the kind of orgasms I am talking about here. What I am talking about is the sex you have in a relationship that makes the fights go away.

Now, I’m also not talking about taking off your clothes, humping and getting each other off (basically masturbating inside each other). That is not what sex is all about.

Granted, I’ve had relationships in which the sex was really just about masturbating inside each other. I’m sure all of you have.

What I am talking about here is being connected to each other’s needs, wants and desires leading up to sex. That means tuning in to how your lover needs to be taken.

Are you someone who just needs to be thrown down on the ground in a testosterone-driven rage and be taken while they look in your eyes? Are you someone who needs verbal foreplay? Whatever it is, we are all very different sexually.

We all love the act itself. Who doesn’t love the warmth and the moisture and the heat of that whole experience?

I remember when I was a baby what my first words were to my Mother. I said, “Wow, it’s so warm in your amniotic sac.”

When I slid my way out, I couldn’t wait to get back in. It took me eighteen and a half years to get back inside.

The bottom line here is to know how you are wired sexually. What do you need the most in your lover? This is something I want all of you to think about today.

Do you need someone to seduce you? Do you need someone who will look in your eyes and talk dirty to you in order to turn you on?

Are you someone who likes to get raw and dirty, and just be taken? You want to have dinner, go home and have your lover f*^k the shit out you?

Write down whatever it is that you want and need. This is very important and something that a lot of people overlook.

Like your good friend Dr. David says, “an orgasm a day keeps the Tyson away.” It keeps the fighting away.

The only issue, and what’s important, is how we get to that orgasm. You may not be aligned with somebody sexually; they may be a totally different sexual type than you are. In that situation you might be having great sex, but it doesn’t mean you are being fulfilled.

So it’s really important before you get into a relationship (or even if you’re in one already), that you are straight about who you are sexually. Be honest about who you are and what you want. This is so important because once you start having sex with someone, it’s very hard (no pun intended) to make changes.

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My answer to people who ask me about this is always the same. I tell them to date as many people as they can handle in their life.

If you can handle dating six people at one time in your life, then do it and enjoy yourself. Date as many people as you possibly can until you find the person with whom you truly click, the one who makes you want to see them again (and only them).

There’s no reason that you should not date as many people as you can handle. If you can handle dating three people at once, then date three people at once. If you can only handle dating one person at a time, though, you should only date one person at a time.

There are no rules about this. People always ask me if they are “allowed” to date more than one person at a time. The answer is, absolutely! Do whatever you want. This is your life.

If you are dating multiple people, there is one thing I want you to be sure to do. You need to keep track of what you have said to each person and what you have talked about with each person. Keep a journal so that you can really start to get deeper about what attracts you to each person. By doing this, you will not only learn more about yourself but you may actually see which one you want to give a better chance.