Have you ever had a “purple day moment?”

Reminiscing is a lot of fun. On the way to the airport the other morning, Sonja and I were driving behind a red car.

Do you know what I love? Man, I love doing a Bootcamp. I love cramming all the guys into my car. Usually I have to drive around with Daphne or Sonja. I also love when a guy at a Bootcamp comes up with a scenario he thinks is going to be a huge challenge for me. Nothing is a big challenge for me anymore, at least in the area of meeting women (and the emotions and concepts behind it). It’s something that I’ve mastered, and it’s easy for me. I so enjoy now showing guys how it can be equally easy for them.

Here we are in the middle of winter, and I have so many guys who want to know about how to meet women at the beach. I recently had someone who came in from Australia to work with me, and of course the conversation was all about how to meet women at the beach (since it’s the middle of summer there). Then there are other guys who will be traveling to Mexico, Florida or the Caribbean for vacation or spring break. All of these guys will be wondering how to meet people on the beach. The beach is…

It’s 12:42 pm. You’re in a clothing store at a shopping mall, and you see a woman to whom you are attracted. You observe what she’s doing, and you find an opener. She’s holding an AC/DC t-shirt, so you know you can walk over to her and say something simple like…

How many times has this happened to you . . . You walk over to a woman. You open her with a simple observation. When she responds, you have a great opportunity to use humor to keep the interaction going but you don’t take it. Your brain shuts down and you end up talking about useless nothing. If this scenario sounds at all familiar to you, then…

So there’s a trend going around. You may have read about it. There are a bunch of guys that go around and teach the “you’re beautiful” opener or the “you’re really cute” opener. This opener is being taught to guys who want to authentic and real, and these poor guys are forced to go out and approach 40 women a day saying the same “you’re beautiful” line.

Meeting women in grocery stores is all about making basic observations. Grocery stores are great places to meet people.

Recently I was hanging out in Whole Foods with Chris and Josh and there was a woman standing near the fruit while I was getting a peach.