Today, I want all of you to look at this video. What you are about to see is a very successful opener followed by complete indecision. Do you ever feel like you are at a loss for words thirty seconds into a conversation, and all you can do is wonder how long you can keep the flow going?

I just got off the phone with a client and I wanted to share the conversation we had with all of you

David: So what you’re worried about is not the opener, right? You’ve opened a woman up, but you’re worried about creating that attraction throughout the conversation, right?

Client: Yeah, that, and having something to say immediately after opening her, especially if she’s not giving me a lot to go off of.

The best way to approach a woman in a bar is to go up to her after the douche bag has just tried to pick her up and failed.

The guy always goes over there with his training wheels on – and not even decent training wheels, but the ones that are squeaky and wobbly. So he goes over and tries his ridiculous line on her, and it obviously doesn’t work.

The second he leaves, you can go over there and say, “okay, I’ve got to know: what the fuck did that guy say to you? I watched him and his friends over there, checking you out and elbowing each other to decide who was going to come over and talk to you. So, just for the sake of social research, I’ve got to know what he said to you – I bet you money he picked it out of some book, right?”