It’s funny how quickly we forget about the basics. Going out and meeting women is not that difficult. Going on a date and engaging the woman you’re out with in great conversation is not that difficult. So why can’t so many guys do it? It’s because they’re not having fun…

Hey guys, Shogo here with another weekend blog for you!
Here’s a comment that a reader left on the blog that I really wanted to address. I’ve heard it quite a few times from guys and the topic is really relevant for guys who don’t drink alcohol but still want to go out and experience some nightlife….

Hey folks, Shogo here with another weekend blog for you guys….

David is out in Chicago today at his final Communication Seminar of the year! If you missed it but wanted to attend, don’t worry. There will be more coming next year, so stay tuned.

You know I always love giving you guys advice on how to handle going out on the weekends,

Shogo here with another weekend post for you guys!

As some of you guys who’ve been following the blog lately may know, I’ve been in New York apartment hunting the past few days. It’s my old stomping ground, so while I’ve been here, I’ve also been going out a lot catching up with old friends.

It’s Friday night. You’re a bit tired from the week’s work. You think to yourself, “I really should go out tonight and meet people.

I was sitting around the other day and thought.
So many men and women head to the bars on a Friday night with some really high expectations.
Not only that, with some really bad advice on how to meet each other.
So I called Shogo up and since he was and still is a Bartender in one of the nations hippest cities, he would be the man to give all of you some great advice to succeed in bars.
Or as so many people call it. Night Game.

I get asked this question so many times: Is it better to run with a wing?
Every time someone asks me this, all I can picture is this giant chicken wing dripping with buffalo sauce running around next to them. I picture them constantly having to clean off their shoes from all the buffalo sauce that is dripping off their wing.

I rarely talk about going out to bars at night, but it’s interesting. The other night I went to a place called Chaya Venice, which is actually in Santa Monica.
Anyway, it was funny. I was watching this group of girls sitting right behind us. They were just talking and having a good time.
Then I see these guys come over to talk to them. It was really funny. The first guy came over, walked up to the girls, and he was Mr. Crash And Burn Man……..

Yesterday in the blog we talked about the Friday Night Lurker. For those of you who did not read it, I suggest you read it first so today’s blog will make more sense.
To understand the Lurker before the Entrance check this out. Now that you have met Lurker man it is time for you to understand who this other man is.
Does anyone know what an “entrance man” is?

Are you the lurker? Are you that guy who goes out to a bar on Friday and Saturday nights, takes a position somewhere in the bar (maybe standing at the bar or standing at the corner of the bar), and you basically lurk all evening long?
You stand there and spend your entire night just lurking. You don’t really talk to anybody. You never look like you are having much fun……..