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It’s The Day After Christmas
All the presents have been unwrapped.
By now the parents have driven you crazy. You look around the house and think to yourself

Most businesses during this time of year do a lot of year-end inventory.
They check and see whether or not they made the sales they needed to. They check and see what they need to order in the new year. The bookkeepers are frantically crunching numbers so they can get taxes done.
It’s inventory time. The world is taking inventory right now and figuring out what they need for next year. Businesses are figuring out what their cash flow is. Hotels are frantically trying to sell hotel rooms. Households are trying to make just a little more money to close out the year and make sure it was a great year.
And women are looking around and basically thinking….

So you’re at a Christmas party and you want to meet people?
How do you think this Christmas party is any different compared to other parties….

I was talking to a client on the phone the other night and it really struck me just how much apprehension so many guys have about meeting women.
The fear, the anxiety, the uncertainty. That’s why the majority of men never can figure out what to say.
A while ago I came up with this really fun exercise. I told my client to use the alien approach….

How many of you guys still believe in Santa?
Alright, I’m guessing most of you are saying no.
But really, what if Santa Claus was real? I mean, what if Santa Claus was actually real?
What if you could go to the mall, sit on Santa’s lap….

The weekend is all about staying away from the keyboard and going out and meeting people.

Hey people, Shogo here with another weekend blog post for you!

This week has been really hectic, I’ve been on a lot of coaching calls with clients, and few calls with some of you blog readers from all over the world as well. Just a lot of guys I’ve talked to this week.

There’s one common thread that runs through almost everybody

As you know, running your errands provides endless opportunities to meet the people to whom you are most attracted. The problem is that when a lot of people are out running their errands, that they start thinking too much about what they should be doing and saying to meet people.

A lot of you bitch and complain about being single.

It is just really shitty mind set as far as I am concerned. Being single is great. It is
amazing. No one to answer to, all the food in the fridge is yours, you
don’t have to leave the toilet seat up, you never have to change
anything about yourself