Everyone is trying to figure out what the best course of action is tonight!

It is Friday night, you have been waiting all week for this night. The anticipation, the debates on what place is going to have the best selection of people to meet.

It all sounds so good on paper.

But really what is the reality?

The reality is some of you will have fun.

Some of you will chase the night looking for fun.

Some of you will stay home to avoid the night.

And some of you will just wonder, is there any alternative things to do.

The same old same old gets so stale.

You all know the definition of insanity.

Doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result.

So what do all the insane do instead?

Today’s video will explore some alternate ways to have an amazing Friday night and weekend.

And one last thing.

When I was meeting the most women I never stepped foot into a bar.

If you really want to go deeper and find out about some of my favorite places to meet women check this out.

So much so that they forget some of the most obvious social mistakes.

Today check out how you can easily approach women on the street and can all the women please chime in here as well!!

You either became a total mute paralyzed by fear or you teased her so no one knew about your secret crush.

Well some of you still suffer from the extreme mental paralysis that we call monkey chatter.

Do you desire a great way to meet women this weekend?

Check out the power of adult teasing, not much different that when we were kids!!

For those of you who are serious about eliminating monkey chatter forever i strongly insist that you click here!!!

Its seems like every guy wants to know the secret of how to grab her attention and make her stop in her tracks, forget where she was going, and fall for the magic that spews out of his mouth.

Today I am going to share this secret with you.

Women of the blog your job is to recognize these efforts when they happen and help the men along!

Looking forward to reading todays comments!!!!

I said, “Caffeine? No, I don’t drink coffee. I just don’t want to talk to anyone before 11:00 a.m.” She started laughing.

Then she asked my why I don’t drink coffee. Her question made me think about why I don’t drink it. Here are my main reasons:

1. Maybe I don’t want to pour acid on my stomach first thin in the morning.

2. Maybe I don’t want to drink something so bitter first thing in the morning when I wake up.

3. The times I did drink coffee during some trips to Europe, I ended up buying things I never wore.

4. That caffeine buzz really isn’t needed for someone like me who is already so energetic.

5. I like to ease into my day. I like to lay in bed an extra hour. I like to take Daphne to the beach for a walk feeling all foggy. I enjoy slowly starting the day. What’s the rush? Why do I need to get my heart palpitating the minute I wake up after relaxing all night long. Plus, why would I want to feel jittery after just having a good night’s sleep?

My favorite people are the “puff and coffee” people. They wake up and have a cigarette and some coffee. They already have bad breath. Nothing could smell worse than coffee breath and cigarette breath mixed with morning breath. Why bother brushing your teeth?

So besides generally not needing coffee, not wanting to feel jittery and not wanting to have coffee breath, the real reason I don’t drink coffee is because I like my slow easy morning. Even on the days when I have to wake up early, I enjoy waking up.

The idea of living another day is enough for me. I really don’t need to stimulate myself to feel excited about life. And what does this have to do with meeting hot women while on caffeine. Nothing at all I just thought we would have a very light day today but the video below will show you all you need to know for the upcoming weekend!

Though after watching this video you would think i was high on caffeine!!

The following is a conversation we had at a recent bootcamp about bullying yourself. This will give you some sort of an idea of what we do during bootcamps.

David: Are you a bully?

Do you enjoy constantly teasing people? Do you like to sit there and push people through the cootie door?

You remember the cootie door from grade school – you picked a door and if someone walked through it, they had cooties for the whole day.

Do you remember cootie shots? The only form of immunization…

But the question remains: are you a bully?

Most of us adults are no longer bullies to other people. We stopped being bullies to others a long time ago, except many of us are still bullies with one specific person. And I’m not talking about your younger sibling.

Many of us are bullies to ourselves. We are own worst enemies.

Do you tend to look only at the negative things about yourself and are you constantly making fun of yourself cruelly and making excuses? You’re being a bully.

I bully myself about my chicken legs, and I constantly use them as an excuse: “man, I don’t want to put those pants on, they’ll make my legs look too skinny. I’m not wearing those.”

We are always our own worst enemies. We love to make fun of ourselves.

You’re sitting here laughing, what are some ways that you bully yourself?

Client: Well, I take myself way too seriously. In my line of work, it’s important to anticipate what people are going to say, so I always expect big things out of myself when I’m in a conversation with a woman.

I’m never listening to what the other person is saying, but more trying to out-do that person. Then I wind up not listening to them at all, and they lose interest. That’s what I bully myself about.

David: Rey, how do you bully yourself?

Rey: I bully myself about everything! “You’re not good enough, you’re not being loud enough, you’re not being interesting enough, you don’t have your personality out,” everything like that. “You’re not letting yourself out, you’re too stiff!”

David: And by doing that, Rey, you don’t ever let yourself out because you’re constantly thinking about it.

Every time you approach a woman, you’ve got that mindset, and then of course, you become that.

What about you?

Daniel: I guess I bully myself when I don’t meet the expectations I have for myself.

David: Like how?

Daniel: I bully myself with the typical monkey chatter: “I’m not going to be able to escalate intimacy in a conversation!” I’m also always thinking about the end result and having that fear of what to say next or how to transition to the next topic.

David: It’s interesting. You think so much that your monkey chatter is saying, “you can’t escalate, Daniel, you can’t escalate,” and then, because you worried so much about it, you can’t.

The only escalating we should think about is the escalators we ride on in the stores. Women will get sexually turned on to you by you being charming, real and in the moment. She’ll start to connect with you.

‘Sexual escalation’ is a term that men think they need to be so aware of, but in reality, it will just happen naturally if you’re strong, powerful, and you don’t think. The real sexy side of you is the side that isn’t thinking about everything. It’s the side of you that just lives and responds to things in life. The side of you that goes with the moment, and goes with the flow.

Our bully is unbelievable. We love to bully ourselves constantly. We are constantly ripping ourselves apart. We’re trying so hard to be perfect and say the ‘right thing.’

In reality, nothing in life is perfect. Your imperfections are the things you need to embrace and learn to love. If you don’t embrace and love your own imperfections, nobody else ever will.

I’m an OCDer. I’m looking to buy a house right now, which you all know, and I am having so much trouble. I just cannot pull the plug. I bully myself in so many different decisions that I can’t even think of, yet everything else I do in life is very simple and easy.

We all have our things that we need to work on. You need to embrace those imperfections, make fun of yourself and have fun with it.

We did that exercise last night where we made fun of ourselves and it was a blast. We all made fun of our dumb little faults.

You got dressed up in clothes you thought looked great, and then you made fun of yourself for being some big metrosexual.

But in reality, you look like a guy that is nicely dressed and that women would notice. You’re thinking, oh man, I can’t pull this off, I can’t look sexy – but you do.

That’s how we stop bullying ourselves.
Todays video is perfect for the weekend.

How do you overcome rejection?

The bootcamp just ended and as always i am sad to see the guys go. Someone once asked me what type of guys take my bootcamps?

Do you know what my answer was.
Guys who become my future friends!!

So here’s to a great weekend that i just spent with my future friends.

Thanks to:

Justin
Pete
Re Pete
Pradeep
Sarish
Clive….wherever you vanished 2
Chris
Ameet
Contstantin
Hakan
Ashley
Rogerio

And a huge thanks to my new ace coach in London Adam C and my coach in training Markus from Austria for all the help and amazing job they did with the guys this weekend.

And of course the weekend would not have been a huge success without the insight from my friend Eddie and a cameo from one of my ex clients Chris who joined us for the Sunday night dinner!!

Looking forward to my next bootcamp in NYC and all the future friends that i will meet!

One other thing I love about London is that I get to watch the NFL games late at night!!!

Onto to today’s topic…something that we went over in detail this weekend.

What is it with every guy and the street approach? Why does every guy want to get every single woman that walks by?

Here is why: because these guys don’t have an abundance mentality to begin with.

The fact is that I don’t care about a lot of the women that walk by me on the street because I can go out and meet women anywhere, any place, any time.

Why am I going to approach them when I’m totally intruding in their personal space? You don’t really want to do that.

Picture when you’re walking down the street in a rush. You don’t want some stranger walking over to you and breaking your concentration – you’re in a hurry. You’re trying to make it to a meeting, and you’ve got some person trying to open you up with some lame conversation. You don’t really want that.

What about when you’re hanging out with your buddies, just having a good time, and some stranger puts themselves right in your face. You don’t want that either.

There is only way that you’re going to work street game, or whatever you want to call it. For instance, today we were walking down the street in Santa Monica and this woman was walking towards and tripped – she literally almost fell on her face.

So as she walked by, I looked at her and said, “I saw that!” She said, “aw, man, I was hoping that nobody saw that,” and then we started talking.

It all comes back to the same thing: if you can observe something that will get her to stop walking, go for it. But if you see somebody and you’re very in tune with the universe – why would you stop someone who’s in a hurry?

You don’t need them all. You don’t have enough time to date them all anyway! And you’re only looking to find that amazing connection. There are plenty of women to sleep with and have fun with.

You don’t need them all. It’s all about abundance.

If any of you want to do some one on one coaching this week in London let me know…i have some time free on Tuesday and Wednesday.

Here is a great way to meet women on the street. Use the Tree Guy to help.

Here is what is amazing: when you go out there all day long and start looking at your neighborhood, observing and talking to people, you’ll start to enjoy your life just a little bit more.

Maybe you walk into a museum, or a clothing store, or a furniture store – whatever it may be – what you need to do is gather information. You’re learning about things that you’ve never learned about before. Learning new things makes you memorable to other people.

Today, in LA, we went into this great furniture store and we saw this cool Arne Jacobsen Egg chair. You’ve seen that chair a few times and you’ve been interested in it. And three months down the road – and this will happen, because that’s how life works – you will go to a party and the host will have that chair.

Everybody is going to look around and say, “wow, that chair is really cool,” and then you’ll be able to say, “yeah, it’s a very famous mid-century designer” because of what you learned today.

All of a sudden, the conversation starts to go to YOU. You become the guy that is the expert. You are able to contribute to the conversation, and you will become the leader of that discussion.

All of the information that you pick up every day is information you can use anytime.

Todays video is part two of a live street meeting with a few dutch women in Amsterdam.