I was sitting around the other day and thought.
So many men and women head to the bars on a Friday night with some really high expectations.
Not only that, with some really bad advice on how to meet each other.
So I called Shogo up and since he was and still is a Bartender in one of the nations hippest cities, he would be the man to give all of you some great advice to succeed in bars.
Or as so many people call it. Night Game.

We have been all about talking about the Bars in recent Friday blogs. So to stay with that new tradition lets talk all about the lurkers best friend Mr Shot Buyer.
Are you the shot buyer? That’s my favorite guy to watch when I go to a bar.
You walk into a bar and there he is. You’re standing next to this guy who says to everyone around him, “You guys want a shot?”

The last few days on the blog have been an awesome debate.

If you missed all the fun check it out right here before you read today’s post.
Anyway Eric from the blog posed this question to me and I thought it would be great to post…..

I rarely talk about going out to bars at night, but it’s interesting. The other night I went to a place called Chaya Venice, which is actually in Santa Monica.
Anyway, it was funny. I was watching this group of girls sitting right behind us. They were just talking and having a good time.
Then I see these guys come over to talk to them. It was really funny. The first guy came over, walked up to the girls, and he was Mr. Crash And Burn Man……..

I am sure by now the texts and the emails are coming in.
Everyone is trying to figure out what the best course of action is tonight!

I am sure at this point in the day you are texting your friends and wondering.

It’s Friday and you’re thinking, “Where do I go tonight? Should I go to a party? Should I go to the bar I normally go to on Friday nights, and just kick back and have some beers with friends? Should I maybe go to that new Irish pub on the corner? I heard it’s a lot of fun there.” This blog has nothing to do with where you should go on Friday night. I think that no matter where you choose to go tonight, however, you just need to be sure you…

A client of mine was just asking me about how to handle something that happens all too often in a bar. Now my client knows I am not a big fan of the bars, but lots of people do go to them. It’s always good times when you go to the bar to have fun with your friends, and you run into who I call Mr. Testosterone . . . or, really, Joe Jerk. I call these guys Joe Jerk because they are guys who…

There you are, alone at a bar waiting for your friends to arrive. You are standing at the bar only a few feet away from a woman who is also standing alone at the bar. This woman is beautiful. She is everything you think you want. You see her take a sip of her drink, play with the straw, look at her watch and check her cell phone. She looks around the room and, for just a split second, your eyes meet and you have a moment. Then she…

Here is an experiment I did one time with a friend in a bar. Coach Jacob and I just stood in one place, but we had an animated conversation. We were just having a good time. We stood right in the middle of the bar – so that everyone in the bar was standing around us – and just talked animatedly.