Do you suffer from Scarcity mentality? Do you believe that there are no good single people left in the world. Or to be more specific in your world, in your town, on your block.

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. Are you thinking to yourself, “What do I do? This is my first Valentine’s Day alone in a long time.”
Are you newly single or is the ink still wet on your divorce papers as this Valentine’s Day approaches? If so, is this making you wonder what to do on Valentine’s Day?
You feel lonely. You think about maybe getting the kids together and having a party. You even think for a second about calling your ex to see what they are up to.

Got a surprise in store for all of you. You’re going to be shocked to hear this.

From where does the term “Black Friday” come? Black Friday. It sounds so bleak. Why can’t it be Yellow Friday, since it’s sunny and happy and all the stores are advertising that they are giving away stuff (that they’re not really giving away). Well, it’s true. You have to wake up at 1:00 in the morning, be first in line, and be armed with a great pair of track shoes so you can sprint faster than everyone else to get the one and only plasma television they are selling for $529.00. Here’s something, though, about which probably none of you are thinking on Black Friday.

How reality driven are you? Do you see someone and right away all you do is create a story about them? Do you put people in a fantasy zone? Life is all about missing perceptions. What you think is never what lurks inside. Listen today on how to get out of the Perception Zone.

What are the best “single cities?” All of you right now are probably anticipating me busting out David Wygant’s list of the best cities for singles, and wondering if your city is going to be on it. Is New York going to be on it? Is San Francisco going to be on it? Is the percentage of men in Boulder, Colorado too high to live there?

I get tons of emails from both men and women asking me one major question: “David, What can I do to meet more people?” Then these emails usually will go on to explain all of the places they go just to meet people. They’ll say, “I just can’t figure it out. I go to bars. I go to parties. I go to all the “it” places. But I just don’t know why I am not meeting more people.” Here is what I tell everyone who asks me that question

A few years ago I wrote a book called “Always Talk to Strangers.” It was the first book I ever wrote. One thing I always say is that people who don’t talk to strangers never learn anything new about themselves. Your friends know you, love you and will not challenge you as someone new will. Strangers have the most interesting messages for you.

I was in a Whole Foods-like market in Malibu the other day, and I was “BlackBerrying out” texting on my phone (which is something I tell you guys never to do!) I caught myself doing this (and you should too). You should never be on your hand held device in public oblivious to everything going on around you, because you will miss opportunities that present themselves.

I received an email the other day from a woman which truthfully broke my heart. She emailed me expressing serious doubt that there really IS someone out there for everyone. Then she asked me my opinion on that very question: Is there someone out there for everyone? There are more than six billion people in [...]