I think a lot of people are really unrealistic. This is especially true when it comes to dating. Think about this. There are 52 weeks and 365 days in a year. Think if you went out and met people every single day with the goal of getting one date per week. I’m not just talking about a date with anyone you can find, but with someone with whom you share a real chemistry connection.

Billy Joel sings a song called “New York State of Mind.” That song describes what a New York state of mind is, and how he feels when he is in that state of mind. You can see how powerful that state of mind is to him. Your state of mind is everything when you go out to meet women. Everything.

A client of mine recently asked me a great question. He asked me, “How do you stay in your own reality?…

In order to meet somebody great, you need to create a great lifestyle for yourself.

Nothing turns a woman off more than a bunch of testosterone-laden men cruising the bars like a pack of hungry, drunk wolves searching for their next kill on a Friday or Saturday night. Does this behavior sound appealing to you? Yet I’m sure this is what you probably do with your buddies…