A man-girl is a guy who works out all the time. Yes, I know you’re probably thinking, “But David, YOU work out a lot — and so do I. Are you saying you and I are man-girls?”

No, that’s not what I’m saying. So what does working out have to do with being a man-girl? Ahhhhh, listen up my fellow readers, and let’s go a little deeper into this.

A man-girl is a guy who doesn’t just go to the gym, but who is anal-retentive about it and freaks out whenever he doesn’t get to the gym. If he eats a muffin, or a scone or a piece of cake, he thinks to himself that he is getting a little puffy (or that he probably just put on an extra pound). He’s the guy at Thanksgiving who sits there during the meal and all he can think is, “I can’t wait to get to the gym in the morning.”

That is what a man-girl is. He is a guy who is so obsessed with his body, that if he puts on even a pound or two he feels like he needs to go on a diet right away.

He can’t see past those few pounds; they are all that is going through his mind. That is a man-girl.

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It’s crazy when I hear that. It’s crazy when I hear that from a woman too, actually, because life is too short.

So you pigged out for a couple days or a week. You didn’t go to the gym for a week. Who cares?

If you train your body correctly, then even if you put on two or three pounds in one week, muscle memory will kick in the second you return to the gym and start working out again. Your body will bounce back. It’s a known fact — it really is.

When you are a man who is a man-girl, it is a huge turnoff to women. I was talking to a client the other day who used to date a man-girl. She said that every time he started to talk like this, she used to think, “You’re kidding me, right?” She felt like she was dating a woman instead of a man.

So if you are a guy and you act like this, you need to stop being a man-girl and start being a real man. If you gain a few extra pounds, then go to the gym and do what real men do: cardio! Don’t be such a girl about it.

I recently returned from a great six day trip to Hawaii. It was a trip I really needed to just clear my head, have a great time and relax. I took someone very special who means the world to me, and someone who I think is one of the greatest women in the world.

For those of you who know me, you know I’m talking about my ex, Alison, with whom I spent six and a half years. Alison and I are not together as a couple anymore due to my own issues.

You know, in life nobody is perfect or has it together all the time. In a nutshell, though, when Alison and I were together she really wanted to continue our relationship and to build the foundation for a future together with me. During the time I was building my business, however, it was really hard to do that.

There’s something about being a man, having a business and making that business exactly how you want it to be. There is something inside a man that really just aches to be ultra-successful and proud of what he does.
It took a long time to build my business because even though you are an expert at what you do, you still have to build your reputation.

You need to work with clients. You have to research. You’ve got to live it, believe in it, and be that business.

Alison and I had a great time together and a great relationship, but I just wasn’t ready to give her what she wanted. I believe there’s a saying that when you love someone, you have to be willing to let them go.

You can’t keep someone when you can’t give them the love in a relationship that they want and deserve. Thus we separated as a couple.
When Alison and I separated, I realized (and I’ve always known since we broke up), that she is an amazing woman and in fact is amazing in every way.

Now I am ready for that type of relationship and I would love to have that type of relationship with Alison, but she is no longer sure if she wants to have that type of relationship with me.
I’m not trying to dump all of my feelings and the details of my personal life on all of you, but I am telling you all of this because there is a very important lesson I want to share. Just because you’re ready for something with someone doesn’t mean the other person is ready for that at the same moment. Timing is everything when it comes to relationships.

So if someone is worth fighting for, you better fight for them every step of the way. It’s a battle out there to find someone with whom you can really connect and whom you really love. Because meeting the right person is so hard, I tell people all the time to stay focused, stay motivated, and to meet as many people they can.

In order to find the right person for you, you must go through a lot of people. You’ve got to work the numbers.

To find someone spectacular you will have to go through a lot of disappointments, a lot of near hits, and a lot of near misses.

Even if you do find a spectacular someone, if you’re not ready for it then it will not work out and you are going to have to do the whole thing again when you are ready.

Part of what I stress all the time with my clients and with all of you is how important it is to work on yourself. Work on your inner confidence. Work on who you are as a man or as a woman. Work on yourself as a person. What do you want out of life? Who do you want to be, and how do you want to be remembered?

Are you passionate about what you do for a living? If not, that’s going to affect you in all other areas of your life. If you are passionate about what you’re doing but you are not fully successful at it yet, then keep at it.

In order to be able to give to someone else, you must first complete this part of your journey. So now I feel complete. I have everything I want: a great business, great people with whom I work, and a fantastic dog who snores next to me every night.

Now I also want that spectacular person, and it would be nice if that person is Alison because finding someone as special as she is isn’t an easy task.
I’ve dated other people this year and last year, but they just didn’t work out because none of them were grounded, stable or as amazing as I always considered Alison to be. No matter who I was seeing, I always had Alison in the back of my mind.
It’s really interesting what you discover as you’re going through life finding yourself. Sometimes you realize that what you had is exactly what you want . . . but you just weren’t ready for it.

So my advice to all of you today in this blog that is so different than almost every other one I’ve written, is to work on yourself. Become that person you can respect, and others will respect and love you back!

In order to really be a powerful man in all ways you need to lead a woman sexually.

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Have an amazing Friday!