I was thinking about this question: What does it mean to be someone’s lover?
I’m using the term ‘lover’ generically, but you could fill in the blank with someone’s husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend. Let’s use the term ‘lover’ here though.

There are a lot of good talkers out there. So many people are wonderful talkers. People are just great with talking. “I want to please you Honey.” “I want to take care of you Honey.” “I want to do this for you Honey.” The question is: Do you really do what you say you’re going to do? Everyone can say all the right things, but how many people actually deliver?

What is the difference between a lover and a boyfriend? You know a lot of women email me all the time asking me what the “rules” are in the context of having a lover versus a boyfriend.

It’s nobody’s business what you do with your lover. It’s nobody’s business how often you see them or how often you want to see them. You don’t need to justify it to anyone.