So many of you make this mistake…
Someone asked me the other day what I thought about manliness. Here is the truth about manliness. A real man walks over to a woman in whom he is interested. He gets to know her. He realizes that he is a catch. If he finds something attractive about her, then he asks her out and gets her phone number. A real man will call her up…
I’ve been asked what living in the moment means to me, and what my inner processes are as to how I live in the moment. I’ve also been asked how I deal with my own demons. I love my demons. It’s interesting, because to me living in the moment is the only way to go. The only thing that really means anything is right now.
I’m sitting here having a typical lunch. Now, my typical lunch is a little different than most people’s typical lunch. During my typical lunch, I talk to everybody – waiters, busboys, hostesses, everybody. I get to know each of them as they walk over to my table. I find out who they are and what they’re all about. I connect with each of them in some way.
Give yourself permission. That is a term I use a lot. A lot of us don’t give ourselves permission to talk. We will give ourselves permission to think, though, so we basically spend a lot of time just thinking about what to say. We walk through life thinking to ourselves “What should I say?” instead of just observing and making comments about what we see. Give yourself permission to…
While I was working out with a friend of mine recently, I asked him what he was doing during the upcoming weekend. He said, “Tonight I’ve got to do something really hard. I have to collect money from a friend.” Apparently when a friend of his was on the verge of losing his home, my friend loaned him a decent amount of money. When I asked my friend if the guy ever paid him any of the money back, he said he…
Imagine what it would be like for you to be able to walk into any room and command attention. How would you feel if you were the president of your local coffee shop or of your local Whole Foods? Imagine being able to walk into any bar or being able to go into any party, and you are the person that everybody wants to get to know . . . all before you even utter a word.