I can’t believe that their leader is the same as ours – Jacob – or that when they killed Jacob they also killed Yakub. For those of you who didn’t know before where he lives, he lives in a foot.

How is Locke dead and alive at the same time. Also, poor Sawyer! He finally finds love . . . only to have it slip through his fingers.

I’ll be coaching the Bootcamp this weekend. For the rest of you who want to meet women, I suggest you grab a basketball, head to the park and play this great new game.

Remember when you were a kid, and you and your friends used to go out on a late summer day (when the sky was still blue and the sun was not as blazing hot), and you challenged your friends to a fun game of Horse?

Do you remember challenging your friends to a game of Horse? It’s a game played with a basketball where you had to spell out the letters H-O-R-S-E, and the loser would probably get a noogie or a dead-leg or something. It was fun tossing the ball into the hoop and doing some male bonding.

I mentioned this old game to a female friend of mine, who suggested that an adult version of this kid classic might be pretty fun. Instead of calling it Horse, though, you’d call it “Whore.”

She suggested that to play Whore, the object would be to spell it — W-H-O-R-E. Instead of a noogie, the loser becomes the other person’s whore for the night, and would have to perform anything sexual that the winner wants. Now there’s a good date!

Another version of this game could be called “Strip Whore,” and could be a closer version to the original. When you’re playing this version, make sure you do it late at night and in your own backyard. Play it just like Horse with the basketball, except as each person spells out a letter they must remove an article of clothing. It’s going to get really hard to concentrate on your shots after a few letters are spelled out.

Memorial day weekend in LA and it is 54 degrees and raining!!! I love the rain so its a nice break!

Today we have a great video on how to create great first dates.

So you met a man or a woman and you created some instant attraction.

Now what do you do.

Are you going to be a great flirt?

Are you going to stop the monkey chatter and turn off the negative thinking long enough to connect with women.

Are you a woman that has trouble connecting with a man on a first date.

Todays video will help you out….but first you must read todays blog!!

Are you somebody that really values every minute of your day? Do you make a conscious effort to basically respect yourself?

Do you make an effort to make sure you get dressed in the morning, to make sure you eat a good meal for breakfast, to make sure you get a good eight hours of sleep?

Are you somebody who looks forward to certain TV shows, and you make the time for the certain things in your life that are important to you? Maybe you make the time for working out, maybe for getting your favorite cup of coffee in the morning.

Do you make the time for all of the little things in life that you love? Do you make the time for other people? And are you on time?

It’s amazing how many people make the time for the things that they want, but then when they are meeting someone, they are running 30 to 45 minutes late without a phone call or anything. That, to me, shows that you absolutely do not respect the people you are meeting, and you do not respect other people’s time.

If someone commits time to you – if they commit their heart – if they commit their time to you and tell you that they will meet you at a certain time, you’d better show up, and you’d better be on time! They are taking time out of their day to get to know you, and they’re taking time out of their day to hang out with you.

By not showing up on time – whether it’s a date or a business meeting – you’re basically telling somebody that you don’t respect their time. So the next time you’re running 20 minutes late, and you’ve got the thing called a cell phone, use it! Call the person.

As a matter of fact, if you’re running late, call the person an hour ahead of time! You already know that you’re running late – you already know that you’re going through whatever regimen you have that is causing you to be late in the first place.

But don’t make people wait for you without an explanation. Because by the time you actually show up, many times, if it’s a date, you’ve already been ruined – no matter what you do. Especially if it’s a first or second date, when you’re trying to make a good impression on somebody? You’re done.

So next time: check the clock, or just leave a little earlier