What is up with people who write nasty comments about other people? Really, what is up with people like that?

Why would you have any desire to trash someone who is trying to improve themselves? I don’t care what you say about me, because I know who I am. Not only that, but people who write negative comments about someone is usually very jealous of that person.

So when it comes to someone who writes comments that spew negativity, it usually means that they are a very jealous person. They can’t do what you do, so they trash you instead of just congratulating you on your accomplishments.

They will say things like, “That guy is lame” or “That guy is a pussy” or “What a faggot!” Negative comments are often so juvenile. If you read a lot of the comments on YouTube, you would think a 12 year old is writing them. Actually I think I am giving too much maturity to these — it’s like a 5 year old is writing them.

You have no right to criticize people who are trying to improve themselves — whether they are just out approaching people or they come to a Bootcamp or in whatever way they are trying to make improvements. This is especially true for people who are willing to put themselves on video so that you can learn from their experiences.

Negativity is a disease that too many people have due to their own inadequacies. The reason why they’re negative is that they are so afraid to go out and try the things they’re being negative about on their own.

They’re so afraid to improve themselves, and would rather be an “armchair quarterback” who acts like they can do better. What is funny, though, is that they are the ones watching these videos.

I’m not negative about anybody. I truly believe that everybody’s path is their own, and and I embrace on whatever path people people choose to be.

If you’re not good at something, I am not going to make fun of you. I’m not five years old.

You can almost hear these people in their five year old whining voice saying to their computer screen, “You can’t do it, you can’t do it, na na na na na na…” I mean, come on folks.

We’re all out there trying to do better in life. Instead of being negative, support somebody and say “Hey man, that must have been tough doing that. I can’t do it and I’m gonna man up and tell you that I can’t do it.”

Start doing that, and maybe then people will come and reach out to you. If you’re negative, you’re not better than anybody else. Negative people are never better than anyone else, because anyone who is truly secure and confident and capable of doing what they are criticizing would never be so negative about someone learning how to be that same way.

You go to a job. You date someone to whom you are not attracted. You may not even like your dog. Whatever it may be, how many of you can’t speak about your life with passion?

If you can’t, do you know why you can’t? It is because you are really not in love with who you are.

Passion comes from within. People who speak with passion, speak from power that comes from within themselves. Meaning, they love everything about themselves.

They’ve accepted their insecurities. They’ve accepted their fears. They’ve accepted all these things about themselves, and they have embraced themselves.

Today’s podcast is going to teach you how to speak from a place of true passion and how to live a passionate life. This is a “must listen” to podcast. It’s that important and that big.

I can’t even adequately express in writing what I want to tell all of you. You need to hear me talk about it in today’s podcast. So I’m just going to stop my fingers from typing on the computer right now, and I’m going to give you the link for the podcast so you can listen to it right now.

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If you want to learn about my personal journey to self-love, and how to go on that journey for yourself, be sure to check out my “Self-Love” Audios which are part of my Men’s “What’s Your Excuse?” and Women’s “No Excuses” programs.

Many of you are really hard on yourselves, and I want to talk to you about this today.

So you set a goal. Let’s say your goal was to lose 20 pounds by May 1st. Or your goal was to go out and meet 30 women – or date 25 people – whatever it might be.

What do you do when you don’t meet your goal? Are you kind? Are you accepting of yourself? Do you reevaluate your goals and the path that you took? Do you make the necessary changes to meet your goals?

Or are you someone that is so hard on yourself that you basically beat yourself up for a week? Do you say to yourself, I can’t do this; I wasn’t even able to meet my goal!

If you didn’t meet your goal, it means that your game plan was not right. It doesn’t mean that you should quit, and it doesn’t mean that you should stop. You don’t have to stop the journey that you are on. You just have to reevaluate the game plan – there was simply something wrong with it.

But if you are someone who will give up just because you didn’t meet your goal – you have to look deeper. Look deep within yourself, and ask yourself this question: why didn’t I meet my goal? What happened? What were the circumstances that didn’t allow me to meet that goal? And what can I do differently to attain this goal in the future?

And you need to consider that your goal might not have been realistic. If your goal was to go out on 100 dates in three months, and the most dates you’ve ever been on in a three-month period was five, you have to be more realistic.

Make yourself smaller goals that lead to a larger goal. When you set your big goal, do you have small goals in between to keep you on track?

So what do you do in that situation? Instead of beating yourself up, I want you to take a look at your goal and create a whole new plan, including little steps along the way, so you can achieve that larger goal.