My answer to people who ask me about this is always the same. I tell them to date as many people as they can handle in their life.

If you can handle dating six people at one time in your life, then do it and enjoy yourself. Date as many people as you possibly can until you find the person with whom you truly click, the one who makes you want to see them again (and only them).

There’s no reason that you should not date as many people as you can handle. If you can handle dating three people at once, then date three people at once. If you can only handle dating one person at a time, though, you should only date one person at a time.

There are no rules about this. People always ask me if they are “allowed” to date more than one person at a time. The answer is, absolutely! Do whatever you want. This is your life.

If you are dating multiple people, there is one thing I want you to be sure to do. You need to keep track of what you have said to each person and what you have talked about with each person. Keep a journal so that you can really start to get deeper about what attracts you to each person. By doing this, you will not only learn more about yourself but you may actually see which one you want to give a better chance.

Have you thought that maybe your bedroom skills are not what they should be?

Did you think that maybe if you were just a little more wild with him, that he wouldn’t have cheated on you?

Or did you think that maybe, if you didn’t break up with him and you gave him one more chance and acted a little crazier in bed, that he would never have cheated again?

The answer to all of the above is a resounding . . . maybe.

The first thing you need to do is to realize that men who cheat will always cheat. There are certain men that just love variety. One night they want a blond. The next night they want a brunette.

And no matter how good you are in bed, it just does not matter. The man that you’re with is a cheater. He likes variety, and there’s nothing you can do to change that!

The second part to the “maybe” answer is that there are things you can do to keep the man who is not necessarily a cheater from cheating:

1. Have an open discussion about what you like having done to you in bed and what he likes having done to him in bed. Spend one night a week pleasing each other in different ways than you did the week before.

2. If you’re not that great in bed, buy some books on how to please a man. Take a class on how to give a blow job. Seriously.

3. Learn to master the art of dirty talk. Dirty talk tends to turn most men on . . . and the dirtier you talk to him, the hotter he’s going to get.

4. If the two of you have trouble pleasing each other or you have trouble coming to orgasm with a man, masturbate in front of each other to show how both of you like to be touched and pleased.

These are some steps that will help you keep a man satisfied and which will prevent him from straying.

Not all men cheat, and there are a ton of women that cheat as well. Men are not sleeping with one super-slut that they just pass around from person to person. There are many, many women who are having affairs.

We’ll blog more about this another day . . . but if you are sick and tired of attracting all the WRONG men, and want this guy to be the LAST cheater you ever date – then you need to invest in my Art Of Attracting Men product which shows you how to stop attracting all the WRONG men, and start finding the RIGHT ones.