I mean, you guys are always wanting to see long, in-field videos where we’re going out, flirting with women and breaking it down. Videos where I go through the “what to do” versus the “what not to do” in different situations. That’s the kind of stuff I put up for the members on my Community site.

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The YouTube videos are — I hate to say it — short, sweet and to the point. The guys on my Community Site, though, seem to be learning a lot more. I mean, I put 20 minute videos on my Community Site and two minute videos on YouTube (because that’s the attention span of the average YouTube viewer).

No offense, guys. I actually absolutely love when I get complaints that a YouTube video I put up is too long. So after getting a certain number of these complaints, I started saving all the long, really good ones for my Members (and leaving all the short ones for the rest of you).

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Anyway, we were talking about my friend Behar. A lot of you know Behar from the Men’s Mastery Series. He has become something of a legend from that.

He’s actually the man who looked at me at age nineteen and said, “You just have no clue. Do you?” It was an eye-opening moment for me at that time (being age nineteen), because I really didn’t have a clue.

Behar is a basically an “average guy” — about 5’9″ or 5’10″, is kind of going bald and has the “Jewish nose.” Whenever we would go out, he would always kind of throw me under the bus — and this is something every one of you can do when you’re out trying to meet women.

After seeing him do this about a thousand times, I can give you the sequence of events in perfect detail. Here is how this would go down every single time.

He and I would go to a restaurant. The waitress would come over and, of course, would start flirting with me instead of him.

Behar would immediately look at the waitress and say, “Oh, you’re so typical. You go for the solid, good-looking guy just like women always do.” Then the waitress would feel the need to defend herself, and would look at him and say, “No, no that’s not me at all.”

Behar would respond, “What are you talking about? You ignored me like I was not even sitting here. Let me ask you a question. Have you ever thought about going for short, fat, bald Jewish guys? Do you have any idea what you’re missing?”

The waitress would start laughing. Then Behar would tell the waitress to leave and get our order.

When the waitress returned, she would once again start to flirt with me. Behar would say, “Have you given any consideration at all to what I talked to you about? Are you a woman who doesn’t want to expand her horizons, and just continues to do the same things over and over again? You know that is the definition of insanity.”

At this point, her ears were perked up and her mind was racing. Of course, she would always seem to say, “So tell me about short, fat, bald, Jewish guys.” Behar would then look at her deadpan — right in the eyes — and say, “You’ll just have to find out for yourself.”

I mean, it was brilliant. It is one of those things that either works or it doesn’t. The bottom line is that it worked half the time — half the women would go for it and the other half would go back to what they originally wanted, i.e., me.

Anybody can do this. It doesn’t just work if you are a “bald, fat, short, Jewish guy.” It can work if you are average looking, or of a particular ethnicity (e.g., of the “Asian persuasion”), or if you’re super tall or super skinny or whatever it may be.

If, for example, you are of the “Asian persuasion” (as one of my Bootcamp students once termed himself), you could say something like this: “Let me ask you a question. have you ever had a guy of the Asian persuasion? I mean, come on, do you always go for the tall white guy? Have you ever tried Asian? You know, we come in a lot of different flavors.”

There are so many different ways that you can do this. There are so many different ways to have fun with this.

Women love to respond to a challenge. Doing this is calling them out on their shit.

People love to be called out on their shit. They love to be challenged.

So how are you going to challenge yourself to challenge a woman? That’s the real question I have for you today.

I go step-by-step through this, as well as how to get rid of approach anxiety for GOOD, in my new product “Become A Master Communicator.” Remember if you are a member of my list, you can still can your sneak peek copy of this product through tomorrow. If you’re not on my list and would like to be able to get a copy of this product (which is NOT available for sale on my site), then be sure to sign up in the box at the top of this page NOW (this product disappears TOMORROW).

So now….Enjoy the video and have a fantastic Saturday!

This is a great LIVE in-field video that shows you how to know what to say to any woman, anywhere – and how to approach any woman in a totally natural way. See why you never have to feel awkward or funny about approaching a woman ever again.

Have an amazing Saturday!

Blame my assistant Rey who was using my computer!

Here is the right one and I hope everyone had a great start to the weekend.

This is an actual live in the field street meeting.