So you’re dating somebody, and you find out that they slept with more people than you have. You think, “Oh my God. What an awful thing!” Or is it?
How To Handle Their Past
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So you’re dating somebody, and you find out that they slept with more people than you have. You think, “Oh my God. What an awful thing!” Or is it?
Give yourself permission. That is a term I use a lot. A lot of us don’t give ourselves permission to talk. We will give ourselves permission to think, though, so we basically spend a lot of time just thinking about what to say. We walk through life thinking to ourselves “What should I say?” instead of just observing and making comments about what we see. Give yourself permission to…