As all you know, I really enjoy getting emails from my readers. I love to read about your successes. I love to read about your situations. It’s amazing, though, how many people will email me and this will be the sum total of their message: “I saw a woman on the street I want to meet and I don’t know what to do. I always think I’ll be able to talk to her, but I’m so afraid approaching women. I feel like a total loser. I don’t really know what to do. Help me, you’re my last chance.”

It’s the holiday season right now. In a few weeks, clothes will go on sale. Winter wardrobes will be 50% — or even 70% — off. Sometimes I’ll see a guy on a date who really . . . stands out. The woman he’s on the date with looks hot and sexy. The man, however, looks like he was just…