You must be clear in your vision. How do you want your life to be? A lot of guys always look at the surface things they want. They think that if they can just meet a hot girl that everything is going to be great, but that is not the end-all-be-all answer to things. Remember that even if you get that hot girl, she may have a vision of you (and for the two of you together). She may want more kids than you do. She may want different things than you do.

They say that in life, it is the most tenatious people who always seem to get what they want. Let’s take this a step further. When it comes to asking a woman out on a date, you ask once or maybe twice and that’s it. There are other areas of life, however, where it behooves you to become a pain in the ass. Let me give you an example.

Have you ever seen the movie The Sixth Sense in which the little kid utters that now famous line, “I see dead people?”