Do you know all there is to know about romance and seduction?

Do you fully understand what women want, desire and crave when they meet a man?

If you are begining a new relationship or even want to find a girlfriend sometime in the near future, this podcast is for you.

We explore how to secure a girlfriend in today’s podcast and I reveal one dating myth that everyone does wrong.

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And as far as the winner from yesterdays blog. It was really tough, there was some great responses but I had to go with this one from Alan.

Hey DW… Might sound kinda cheesy, and not believable, but I spent my V-day listening to your Self-Love Audio, again! Because I need my mindest (the part of the mindest to love myself) to be ready, even if it means listening to it 15 times!

Valentine’s Day is all about Love.

Alan is practicing, what I feel is one of the most important ways to express love.

Without self love we have no love.

Alan shoot me an email and I will set up your coaching call.

So what is the message?

Tomorrow you will hear all about it in the podcast!!

And this podcast is going to be one powerful message for all of you!

Today I am going to share a video that my friends from Askmen.com featured about how to ask a woman out on a date.

Enjoy.

Click here for the video.

A “Three Fer” in my world refers to the fact that you do not ask someone out unless you have learned three things about them. Otherwise, you are just asking someone out based on physical attraction.

When you are looking at a woman and you’re talking to her, are you really talking to her? A lot of guys will talk AT a woman (instead of to her).

If you’re really talking to somebody, you’re learning things about them. A conversation is a conversation.

Think about a conversation you would have with a buddy. When you talk to a buddy, you’re talking about things back and forth. “How was your day?” “Wow, did you see the game last night?” “How are things going with that girl?” There are three things you are talking about right there.

You never go up and talk to your buddy and just say, “Hey do you like the tea here? I like the tea here. I think the tea is really good here. It’s not my favorite tea; my favorite tea is down the street. That other tea shop is actually my favorite. It’s great. Oh, can I have your number?”

In that situation, basically what’s happening is that your penis is getting her number because you need to get that number. You’re not really communicating.

If you had that same conversation with a friend, your friend would think that you had some type of learning disability and that you should be riding the short bus to school. So when you communicate, you really need to go for the “Three Fer.”

What the “Three Fer” means is that if you did not find out three interesting things about someone — and share a few things about yourself — then why would they ever want to go out with you? Life is all about creating an emotional bond with people.

You want to get together with people with whom you have formed an emotional bond. A woman will want to go out with you when there’s an emotional bond that has been formed.

When you meet a woman, all of this can happen pretty quickly. You can ask her a couple of questions, learn things about her, act enthusiastic about what she’s saying and go deeper into conversation in a short period of time. It doesn’t have to go on for three or four minutes to really learn things about her.

If you learn about a woman and show interest in who she is as a person before you ask her out, she is going to really be excited to go out with you. She is going to go home, talk to her friends and say, “God, I met this really cool guy today at the tea shop. It was so much fun. It was like he was so interested in my caffeine addiction, and he also has to get that jolt of caffeine in the morning like I do. We were talking about work, and he’s in the same field as I am. It was great!”

Do you see what I mean? You have to give her something to be excited about so that when she talks to her friends, they don’t sit there and say, “Oh God, another guy just cruising for numbers in the middle of the day. Don’t you hate when guys just ask you out for no reason? They don’t even get to know you!”

So, that is the “Three Fer.” One of the best ways to really learn how to do this is to take a little note pad around with you, and write down the three things you learned about each person with whom you have an interaction.

If you don’t learn three things about someone — if you only learn one or two things — then you know what you need to do in the next conversation. This is something that a lot of politicians and really good business people use all the time.

This is like what a lot of people do wrong when they’re going for a job interview. They go and try to sell themselves. They’ll just talk about all the things they are going to do for the company. All they do is sell themselves.

Meanwhile, they didn’t look around the room. The man interviewing them has pictures up of his daughter, a Golden Retriever, a golf outing with his buddies, and his boat.

In that situation, I’d walk into that office and say, “A Golden Retriever? No f*^king way man! I grew up with Golden Retrievers. My last dog was a Golden Retriever. What is your dog’s name?” I’m going to bond with him personally, because it’s a known fact that people will hire people with whom they bond personally. They will hire that person over the people who go in and just sell themselves.

Success in life is based on how well you are able to bond with people personally, and not on how well you can sell yourself. The “Three Fer” works in everything.

It works in every aspect of life. So when you go and approach a woman, you better learn three things about her. If you aren’t able to do this, then you need to keep going out and practicing — practice on little old men or on whomever you need to practice on to get it.

Start becoming inquisitive about people. The more inquisitive you are with people, the better connections you’re going to have with them and the more excited they are going to be about you.

Think about this. There are 52 weeks and 365 days in a year. Think if you went out and met people every single day with the goal of getting one date per week. I’m not just talking about a date with anyone you can find, but with someone with whom you share a real chemistry connection.

That’s 52 quality dates a year. You don’t think that out of those 52 dates that you’re going to find at least one person with whom you really connect and with whom you will form a relationship?

It’s funny how many times people say to me, “David, I’d like to go on two to three dates per week.” Why?

It’s really all about going out every single day and meeting people. You can do it for ten or twenty minutes one day or a half hour another day depending on your schedule. It doesn’t really matter.

By doing that, don’t you think you can meet one person per week with whom you share a great connection? Don’t you think you’ll find that great and amazing person with whom you love to hang.

Don’t you think you’d find people along the way that would be great sexual partners? Don’t you think you’d find people who will teach you things and people with whom you can share things? Don’t you think you might find people you want to date for a week, a month or maybe forever?

So, really, keep your goals realistic. Go out there and look for that one great date every week. No need to worry about how many dates you’re getting. Try this for a week!

Click here to hear some of my personal secrets to how I knew exactly how to attract the women with whom I shared amazing connectionss – and how to get better dates and how to meet hotter women in the places you already go.

“Well, from 2001 to 2003, I dated and lived with Mary Thompson. In 2004, I was depressed from the breakup so I didn’t really date anybody. In 2005, I got back into the dating world, and I dated the following six women… In 2006, I had a mini-relationship with Ann Johnson.”

It’s almost like listing your entire resume! You tell the same stories over and over again and you feel like a broken record.

The next time you go out on a date, why not bring a PowerPoint presentation and a tape recorder? Then all you have to do is press play! Put up the slideshow and she can see your childhood, where you went to college, what you looked like when you were younger, and photos of your first girlfriend.

Just bring a PowerPoint! You can show a photo of the shrink you saw in 1999 and explain that this was your “confused year.” When she asks about your job history, you can go to that section of the PowerPoint and show her some of the companies you’ve worked for.

Really, dates are incredibly monotonous. I don’t believe in dates. I believe in hanging out. I have to take my dog for a walk – why don’t we go together? I’ll even bring the plastic bag and clean up after Daphne!

Resume exchange dates and even PowerPoint presentation dates are not very fun. There is nothing interesting about them.

So the next time you want to do a PowerPoint presentation date, why don’t you think outside the box? Why don’t you do some of the dates that we’ve talked about over and over again on the blog? There are so many fun and different dates.

Let’s abandon the PowerPoint presentation and resume dates. Let’s start thinking and having fun and interesting dates.

You’re going to thank me because you’ll be out on a date this week, having dinner with someone and once the date gets a little boring, you’ll think to yourself, man, David was so right! I wish I’d brought my tape recorder to take over for me! I don’t want to be here!

And the tape recorder can do it. You could even just have two tape recorders talking to each other!

Todays video is all about how to meet people in the park. Summer is almost over and the time to meet is now!