You just finished having some of the best sex in your life. It was hot. Man, she had many orgasms. She was oozing and bubbling with sexual desire. Everything was great. Now sex is over, and one part of the bed-the part that you had sex on-is starting to get really cold. Real damp, and it’s right in the middle of the bed. It’s in what I call the cuddle spot.

Why is the wet spot on the bed always in the spot that you cuddle on?

When you’re dating and you’re having sex, it’s always fresh. The sex is always fun, it’s always new and exciting. You’re really exploring a new person, there are always new ways to connect with each other, and every day it feels like you’re finding out something new about each other.
But in relationships, the sex can get monotonous.

You live your life in fear.
You live your life in the future.
You live your life always wanting more.

Do you see a woman and all you can think about is having sex with her? If this is your first reaction then you are a man who is controlled by his little man downstairs. Women read this energy and run for the hills. Men always ask me how to escalate sexually within the first [...]

The other night we were watching this new HBO show, called Treme. It’s a show about post-Katrina New Orleans. It’s a great show.

Have you guys heard the famous quote of mine that’s been circulating all over the Internet? That quote is, “An orgasm a day keeps the Tyson away.” (Yes, I mean Mike Tyson) It’s amazing what a good orgasm will do. I’m not talking about self-administered orgasms. To tell you the truth, those kind of orgasms are lame. They really are. It doesn’t take much skill to…

Let’s talk about sex today. Why not? Sunday is a great day to stay in bed all day and have amazing sex.
So how do you make this happen? Ahhhhh . . . you must watch today’s video to find out.

You know, I’m not going to write that much about Valentine’s Day. What I am going to say about it is along the lines of what I talked about in Wednesday’s podcast. There is one big Valentine’s Day lesson I want all of you to learn. It is about how to make Valentine’s Day exciting for both sexes. How do you do that? It’s very, very simple.

The lights are dim, the candles are lit and the music is low. The smell of seduction is all around you, and you are about to have what you think is going to be great sex. She comes out of the bathroom smelling all pretty and sexy, and the two of you embrace. Something, however, is wrong. Why are you feeling this way right now?

Today is the day of the week we always have a podcast – it is always “podcast Wednesdays” here on the blog. We, however, have been swamped working on something of which I want to cure the world forever. It’s called approach anxiety. It’s a made up disease based on fear and nothing else. Are you ready to end your approach anxiety once and for all?