Which Christmas television character would be most successful at meeting the opposite sex? Here’s something you probably never think about when you’re out there Christmas shopping: Instead of shopping for presents, think about filling your bag with people.

Do you really understand what generosity is?

In my ten years of coaching men – and living in both Los Angeles and New York – I’ve met a lot of “generous” people. I put that in quotations because these are really people who just thought that they were being generous.

I’ve met a lot of men that have bought women things; they’ve taken them on trips and bought them homes. I always disagreed with what they did, because it was clear to me that they weren’t being generous with their heart – they were being generous with their dick.