Dating Tips and Dating Advice by David Wygant » having sex http://www.davidwygant.com/blog Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Wed, 23 May 2012 20:04:21 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Don’t Take it Personally http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/don%e2%80%99t-take-it-personally/1254/ http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/don%e2%80%99t-take-it-personally/1254/#comments Fri, 20 Feb 2009 19:43:36 +0000 David Wygant http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1254 Earlier today, I was in this great mood. We went to Whole Foods, and as I was walking in the automatic door, this cute woman starts to go in at the same time. I said, “After you,” and she just looked down at the floor, didn’t smile or anything, and walked in and away.

Has this ever happened to you?

In my mind, I thought, “Thank god I don’t ever have to talk to her again!”

Her reaction wasn’t about me. I didn’t take it personally. Most guys would think, “Oh no, what did I do wrong? I must have done something wrong!”

But in reality, you can take it a step further and have a fun little visual: imagine having sex with her. Wouldn’t that be fun? She’d just lie there like a sack of potatoes. That’s how you have to start thinking. Start finding the humor in these things.

I get blown off all the time too – but I don’t give a shit! You have to stop thinking negatively, and get out of your head!

Just wanted to share a quick moment with you all today. I am out for the day I have an LA bootcamp this weekend and a great group of guys that will learn this attitude and many others.

Have an amazing Friday!

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