Has everyone had a wonderful over hyped night? I hope some of you took my advice to not chase the night. For those of you who did chase the night away, may I be the first to say “I told you so!” I told you that New Year’s Eve party was not going to be what you thought it was going to be.

That’s okay, though, because I have a secret I’m going to share with you: You’ve got 364 days and nights to avoid again having to try to get everything right in one night.

That’s right . . . it’s a brand new year with 365 days. You probably woke up this morning (like every New Year’s Day) with a list of New Year’s resolutions.

Some of you may want to lose some weight this year.
Some of you may want to make more money.
Some of you may want to make this year your best year ever of meeting people.

You have this new sense about things . . . a clean slate feeling. You tell yourself “This year is going to be different.” You almost felt a giddy feeling when you got up this morning.

For some of you, that giddy feeling was in your stomach as you retched over the bowl getting the last bits of 2010′s alcohol out of your body. The rest of you woke up and thought “It’s a new year. This year I am going to stick to my resolutions. Things are going to be different.”

I really hate to rain on the New Year’s Day parade. I’ve seen rain on the New Year’s Day parade, and those floats don’t look good all wet. As a matter of fact, I don’t want to put a damper on anyone’s giddy feeling, but I have to share something with you.

Even though it’s New Year’s Day, it is really just a Saturday morning after a Friday night . . . and you are still the same person. I am not saying you’re a bad person at all. In fact, you are probably an amazing person. I think everyone is an amazing person.

To be 100% upfront and honest with you, though, nothing has changed between last night and today, unless last night you went on some spiritual retreat that overnight changed your thinking and your mindset. The truth is that nothing really has changed.

Most New Year’s resolutions are broken almost immediately. We’re human. We love to be hopeful. We love it. We want to believe that things are magically going to be different.

When we see a different year on the calendar, psychologically we think “Things really are going to be different this year. I know they are!” Knowing and believing, however, are different from doing. The “doing” part is where the problem usually exists.

If your goal is to lose weight and get into better shape, then you better learn discipline if you want to make that happen. If your goal this year is to meet somebody and to fall in love, how are you going to do it if you don’t have the skill set or the confidence to meet people?

If you haven’t done anything differently (meaning doing some intensive work on yourself with a coach or a motivational program), things are not going to be different just because the calendar has changed from 2010 to 2011. Change happens because YOU change . . . not because the calendar does.

All of you know that I am one of the most supportive people out there. I truly believe in the good in all people . . . but I also tell it like it is.

If you are serious about wanting to make some changes this year in any aspect of your life – whether it’s in the area of love, health or career – then you better be prepared to invest a lot of time and hard work to get that accomplished.

There is no magic pill. Wishing for something to happen will not cause it to manifest itself in your life. Unless you’re a genie, it’s not going to happen that way.

I am about to release my bootcamp schedule – there will be limited bootcamps, limited coaching and limited slots available. I am going to post that bootcamp schedule on the site tomorrow.

For those of you who are serious about changing your life socially, I’m here for you. I’ll give you everything you need . . . and I’ll kick your ass until you get it right. There will also be a new membership portion of the site this year which will include conference calls, new products and lots of other exciting exclusive benefits.

I am dedicating this year to helping every one of you to become more powerful socially. I’m committed . . . are you? It’s going to take time and effort. It’s not going to happen just because it’s no longer 2010.

You know where to find me. You know where to find my products its as easy as clicking right here. You know where to find the bootcamps just as easy by clicking here. Of course, you know where to find all the great information contained in my daily blogs.

We have a lot of work to do this year! Let’s start today.

If you really want someone to help you make your New Year’s resolutions come true, then I’m here for you. For those of you who still believe that things are going to be different just because the calendar has changed, let me know the next time Santa Claus is comin’ to town . . . because I’d like to meet him too.

Todays Video is a perfect one to help you develop that winning mindset in 11.

It’s 2010. So I want all of you to read this statement and tell me how it makes you feel, and what 2010 means to you:

“Every Day is like New Years – Every day has magic in it. All people need to do is open their eyes!”

Oh, and one last thing…

Today I have a new year’s resolution for all the men out there who think that porn is their friend. Watch this to see why this hobby may be destroying any intimacy you will evey have:

Why can’t you say “Merry Christmas” anymore? Does it rub Jewish people the wrong way? I am Jewish, and it doesn’t offend me at all.

When someone says Merry Christmas to me, I don’t correct them. I wish them a Merry Christmas (and maybe a Happy Hanukkah) right back.

Somewhere along the line, we have all gotten so screwed up. We aren’t allowed to wish people a Merry Christmas anymore . . . even if you know the person you’re saying it to celebrates Christmas!

You have to sound like a Hallmark card and say “Happy Holidays” or like a Lexus car commercial and say “Seasons Greetings.” Maybe we should all wear a big red bow on our head too.

So if you see me, I will wish you a Merry Christmas. I am Jewish and I am going to say it. I think it’s fun.

If someone gets insulted when they hear Merry Christmas, they need to think why they are insulted. Virtually everyone who says it, intends it to be a friendly sentiment. So, lighten up! It’s the holiday time after all.

You can say “Happy New Year.” That is allowed.

Why don’t we find one greeting that combines these together. We will market the heck out of it in the coming years.

So how does this relate to dating and meeting people? Well, isn’t this a great topic of conversation to have with people while you’re standing in shopping lines or waiting for your food somewhere?

You can say, “Wow, no one says Merry Christmas anymore…” See, you just started a conversation. I can always turn a topic around and apply it to dating.

So from me to you, may I wish you all a Merry Seasons Greetings and Happy Dating Holidays!

Also, for all of you who are on my email list, be sure to check your email inbox today because I sent you a very special offer. (If you’re not on my email list and would like to get on it, all you’ve got to do is put your name and email address in at the top of the page)