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		<title>What Happened To Summer Magic?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 06:50:42 +0000</pubDate>
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Do you remember when you were a kid and you used to count down the days until school was out for summer vacation?  It started to get warm, and you would start to get excited. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you remember when you were a kid and you used to count down the days until school was out for summer vacation?  It started to get warm, and you would start to get excited. </p>
<p>You had all these big plans for summer, whether you were a young kid looking forward to day camp or whether you were a teenager looking forward to summer camp or to college.  Whether you were going to work as a lifeguard at the neighborhood pool or you were just going have so much fun hanging out with your friends, you just couldn&#8217;t wait for that three-and-a-half-month summer vacation.  </p>
<p>Summer used to be such magic.  The anticipation and the feeling that you felt every day was special.  No school.  Going to bed later.  All of it. </p>
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<p>When I was in the third grade, we spent the summer out in The Hamptons.  It was beautiful.   I remember Gregory Seltzer and I running around and swimming all day long.  We used to go deep into the ocean.  I remember what it felt like deep into the ocean at that stage in my life.  </p>
<p>I remember swimming out there, and then running back on the beach to make a beard in the sand.  Then I&#8217;d shave my sand beard with a clamshell.  Now, as an adult, I can&#8217;t stand shaving.  I wish I never had to shave.  </p>
<p>I remember all the magic.  I remember all the traditions we had. </p>
<p>I would also go away to summer camp and spend almost the whole summer with friends there.  It was so much fun.  Then I&#8217;d come back, and we&#8217;d spend time as a family in The Hamptons. </p>
<p>My Grandmother had a house out in Hamptons Bay.  It was on the water and absolutely beautiful.  At the end of the summer, we used to go to go there.  </p>
<p>The very last night we would have a lobster dinner.  I remember picking up the lobsters at Tully&#8217;s, a seafood store in Hampton Bays, and all the anticipation about that dinner &#8212; cracking them open and sitting down to that last big dinner before going back to school.  </p>
<p>I would sit there and wonder (now, please don&#8217;t laugh) if I would be the tannest or blondest kid in school on the first day.  I was always working on my tan or letting my hair bleach out from the sun. </p>
<p>Summers used to be so carefree.  Now as adults, what do we do?  </p>
<p>We take a week off &#8212; maybe two &#8212; and that&#8217;s it.  The rest of the time, we work. </p>
<p>Summer nights aren&#8217;t magic anymore.  We need to recapture that feeling that we had as a kid.  </p>
<p>What is your favorite summer memory?  What is your most incredible summer memory?  How can you get back that magic?  </p>
<p>Wouldn&#8217;t it be great if your boss let you out of work every single day at 3:00pm just because it was summertime?  What if everyone&#8217;s boss let them out of work at 3:00pm every day of summer, and everyone could go out and play tag?  Maybe you could go out and have a color war like you did at camp, or go to the neighborhood pool and play Marco Polo.  </p>
<p>Maybe we should institute that.  Maybe I should ask President Obama and Congress to make that a law, i.e., that in July and August all businesses must close at 3:00 pm so that all adults can act like kids again.  </p>
<p>Why do we need to be so old?  Why do we need to act like adults?  Why can&#8217;t summer be magical like it once was? </p>
<p>As I&#8217;m writing this blog on a Monday sitting with my wife in Palm Springs, I am realizing how amazing summer truly is.  I want to have that amazing summer feeling back that I had when I was a kid.  So I think if we all get together and maybe sign some type of petition to enact that 3:00pm summer rule, that we can get that magical summer feeling back.  </p>
<p>For those of you who are single, imagine all the great dates you can go on if we get this 3:00pm summer law passed.  Imagine all the amazing people you can meet when go to the adult summer camp at 3:00pm after work, and get to go on a &#8220;social.&#8221;  </p>
<p>I remember socials at summer camp.  They were so much fun.  Boys on one side and girls on the other.  It was so much easier than speed dating. </p>
<p>Anyway, I think we should pass this blog on to President Obama and see what he can do to make this 3:00pm summer law happen.  I think this could be something that could really work! </p>
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