Some people hate being online, yet they will spend hours on the Internet writing profiles, putting up photos and answering emails all to meet people to whom they are not even attracted. Other people who don’t drink, aren’t “late night people,” and who hate the smell of cigarette smoke will spend weekend night after weekend night in bars.

Why would these people do all this? They do things like this, i.e., things they don’t enjoy, in order to meet someone.

There are a lot of people who have the mentality that the time you spend standing in line at a grocery story is not a good time to talk to someone, because they they think “Well I shouldn’t say anything. I don’t want to bother them.” Somehow, though, they think it’s perfectly okay to “bother” someone who is inside a bar or on the Internet.

For whatever reason, a lot of people think there are only certain places at which it is acceptable to try and meet someone. People are so afraid to think outside the box.

One problem with this mindset, is that the “conventional places” to meet someone — like the bar and the Internet — are really the least favorable places to meet people. You have to weed through SO many people to find a gem on the Internet, and don’t get me started about the issues with meeting people in bars.

Everyone wants to meet somebody. We are born and put on this Earth to love. In order to find love, though, you have to meet a lot of people.

You have to be meeting three to five people every day, since (as I’ve said countless times before) about 80% of the people you meet are people with with whom you will have no romantic chemistry. To find that 20%, i.e., those real connections with someone, you have to do the work.

Client: So what are some openers for grocery stores?

David: It’s the same thing every single time. “You’re not very decisive…” or if she’s ordering something like a tuna sandwich, you can say, “hey, is the tuna good here? I’m curious, I’ve never had it here.”

It’s all about observations. You can’t think in terms of pre-arranged openers. It has to be based on observations.

If she’s looking at eggs, you can ask her if she knows what the difference is between free range and regular eggs. Ask her questions based on the moment.

If she’s sniffing blueberries in a very different way, you can say, “hey, let me ask you a question, is that how you figure out if they are ripe? By the smell? Because I usually just guess!”

It’s all based on the moment. A good opener is always based on what is happening in the moment. You shouldn’t go in there with six openers lined up to use.

Everything that I do and talk about is just an example of something that has already happened to me in the past. And those situations will also happen to you.

If you stay completely connected to the moment, these situations will come up repeatedly and you’ll be able to formulate your own openers. Every opener that I use is something that has worked for me so many times.

Look at percentages: there are only so many plays in the playbook. It’s like football. There are only a few hundred different plays in the playbook. In baseball, there are only a certain number of ways the ball will be thrown.

It’s all situational, and everything is broken down in situations. I go into this approach as well as 20 others in my new product. Are you tired of not knowing what to say in all situations and relying on cheesy pickup lines?

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Todays video goes even deeper into this subject. Enjoy a nice cup of hot coffee on this cold January day.