I was out coaching a woman the other night, and we started talking about sex . . . She told me that the number one thing she most dislikes about men is when they use the excuse “I’ve never cum this fast before!”
Come on guys! According to this woman, they are on to you. She basically told me that every guy who has ever used this excuse has not only cum too fast the first time……

When I was trying to fall asleeep last night on my flight to London, I looked at the person next to me and thought. Who has the home bed advantage on this plane?

What if they decide to crawl over on my side of the plane?

Today’s podcast is very personal to me. Today, I take a trip down memory lane for you guys and tell you exactly how I lost my virginity. “Nervous” is not a strong enough word for the feelings I had swirling around inside of me over that brief (but seemingly very long) two-day period in my life.

You just finished having some of the best sex in your life. It was hot. Man, she had many orgasms. She was oozing and bubbling with sexual desire. Everything was great. Now sex is over, and one part of the bed-the part that you had sex on-is starting to get really cold. Real damp, and it’s right in the middle of the bed. It’s in what I call the cuddle spot.

Why is the wet spot on the bed always in the spot that you cuddle on?

Shogo and I were speaking at our Art of Communication and Seduction seminar in New York last weekend. We talked the whole second day of the seminar on the topic of seduction. One of my favorite quotes we came up with: Women look at sex like a marathon, but guys look at it like a horse race.

I think guys look at sex as if they were at the Kentucky Derby. The woman gets naked. She’s standing there in front of the gates, ready to go

Remember the movie A Few Good Men, when Jack Nicholson looked at Tom Cruise and said, “You can’t handle a good blow job!”

Well, ok, he didn’t really say that. But in my version he did.

So you meet a new woman

When you’re dating and you’re having sex, it’s always fresh. The sex is always fun, it’s always new and exciting. You’re really exploring a new person, there are always new ways to connect with each other, and every day it feels like you’re finding out something new about each other.
But in relationships, the sex can get monotonous.

This is a blog that women are going to love, and by which they might at times may make them feel a bit threatened. Men are going to read this blog and be thinking, “I want to have that. I want to possess the power of the penis.”
So what am I talking about here? What is the power of the penis?

Do any of you believe in the replacement theory when you’re dating someone? Have you ever been in a relationship that is just not what you want it to be?
Maybe there isn’t a great sexual connection……..

Before we get into today’s topic I wanted to share my weekend with all of you. I had an amazing time in NYC teaching a great group of men my new seminar format. It was one of my most favorite weekends that I have ever had with a group of guys. I feel like I [...]