I’m laying on the floor of my office, stretching. Something I do during the course of the day so I don’t get tight. And then I looked up at my bookcase, and I realized I’ve got some really good books up there.

Hey Guys, Shogo here with another weekend blog for you guys!

I know that our usual weekend topic is nightlife and bars, but let’s switch it up a little for today. Today let’s talk a little bit about when you’ve got a date.

The question I always get all the time is where do you go on a first date.
I’ll tell you where you don’t go. You don’t go to a movie, you don’t sit there in silence, wondering what she’s thinking, who she is, and feeling all uncomfortable wondering what to say after the movie.

So I’m laying around doing my exercises. Literally, laying around doing my exercises next to a woman I’m friends with. We’re sitting in Egoscue, and I’m working on my back….by the way, it’s feeling much better. Anyway, she was describing her date from the other night. She went out with this guy-now listen up, okay, [...]

I was boarding my flight from LAX to London Heathrow last night for my only European boot camp this year-I always love the London boot camps, it’s one of my favorite times of the year when I fly out there. The whole vibe of the city makes for an amazing weekend with a great group of guys who always end up seeing some incredible breakthroughs in their lives.
So I was boarding the flight and it’s funny, I’ve been a relationship coach for so long now that I pick up on first encounters everywhere I go. As I was getting seated, in the row in front of me I spotted a guy sitting next to a young woman and he was clearly trying to get a conversation going.

There you are. You’re walking down the aisle.
You can’t believe that you’ve made it this far.
The date that you have planned for tonight? Well, it’s worked out. Oh yes, you know everything about it! It doesn’t matter that it’s presently 2011–it doesn’t matter at all. You can see the future. Years down the road, you’re able to look into the future and know exactly how that date’s going to go tonight.

Do you suffer from Scarcity mentality? Do you believe that there are no good single people left in the world. Or to be more specific in your world, in your town, on your block.

Did any of you have a date this weekend?
How did it go?

Do any of you believe in the replacement theory when you’re dating someone? Have you ever been in a relationship that is just not what you want it to be?
Maybe there isn’t a great sexual connection……..

Do you suffer from boring dates?