Was this year everything you thought it would be? Was 2010 the year of you? If so, why? Better yet, if not, why not? The last podcast of 2010 is all about you… and how you could have, and should have, the best year of your life! Listen in now, as this could change your life forever.

One of my favorite lines ever from a movie is in A Few Good Men when Jack Nicholson says to Tom Cruise, “You want the truth? You can’t handle the truth!” We’ve talked a lot in the blog about the truth — the importance of telling the truth and being honest with all the people [...]

You must be clear in your vision. How do you want your life to be? A lot of guys always look at the surface things they want. They think that if they can just meet a hot girl that everything is going to be great, but that is not the end-all-be-all answer to things. Remember that even if you get that hot girl, she may have a vision of you (and for the two of you together). She may want more kids than you do. She may want different things than you do.

They say that in life, it is the most tenatious people who always seem to get what they want. Let’s take this a step further. When it comes to asking a woman out on a date, you ask once or maybe twice and that’s it. There are other areas of life, however, where it behooves you to become a pain in the ass. Let me give you an example.

I’ve talked quite a bit recently in the blog about self love, and I read all the comments you post. One comment that was posted asked a great question: How do you accept yourself and love yourself if you are trying to improve yourself? There is a very simple answer to that question.

Let me share a story with all of you that I think may be a great weekend reminder. I remember when I was about 16 years old and some friends of mine invited me to a big kegger. For anyone who doesn’t know what a “kegger” is, let me give you the quick description. A kegger is when a bunch of high school kids sit around drinking beer out of a keg, get drunk and act like idiots. I remember that all the hot girls were going to be at that party, and how badly I wanted to go. Despite this, I couldn’t…

Do you know anybody who is just mediocre at a lot of things? It is amazing how some people feel they are entitled in life to be compensated for mediocrity. Everybody wants to be the boss. Everybody wants to be paid like the boss, but no one wants to excel like the boss…

I bet all of you are curious about what I have to say about 2010 and your New Year’s resolutions. If you’ve been reading my recent blogs, you know that I think New Year’s resolutions are bulls^*t. So in today’s podcast, I’ve got a kick in the ass for you. What you will hear in this podcast will grip you, will move you and will really wake you up in the RIGHT way as you start out this new year.

I think it is the perfect time to talk about instant gratification. It seems like every year when New Year’s Day hits, people are always looking for instant gratification. People decide on some New Year’s resolutions, and then expect that everything will just instantly change.

It’s Memorial Day. It’s the day everyone is outside having fun, and it’s the first three day weekend of the summer.

How will I remember this Memorial Day?