You were tired of going to the parties and heading out to the same bars and restaurants. You felt like this was the one. Here’s the deal: everything that you’ve ever known about dating is wrong…

Earlier, I asked all the awesome people on my newsletter subscriber list to come to the blog today and post their goals for 2012. Many of the guys I speak with want a girlfriend this year. And if you’re a woman, you might want a boyfriend this year.

What are your goals? What do you want to accomplish…

Have you ever heard the phrase “love is not enough?” How many times have you been in love with someone and it just wasn’t enough? Love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship in the long run. It takes understanding each other’s communication style and the way you each express yourself. It takes understanding each other’s needs and desires. It takes really being able to…

I picked up my girlfriend’s mom from the airport last night, and then we all sat around and had dinner. Doing that made me reflect a little bit.

I have a story I want to share with you, which does an excellent job of illustrating a communication problem from which so many men suffer. One of the main things I teach guys is how to communicate. I really don’t understand why so many guys continue not to communicate. When you really learn how [...]

I want to go deeper into the “So She Has A Boyfriend…” blog I posted the other day , because it raises a mistake that most people make over and over again, and talks about something everyone needs to know. I know that what I’m about to tell you is true for many reasons, but most particularly I know it from personal experience (and lots of it!)

Can you believe that it’s already January 2009. It’s just ridiculous how quickly time flies.

But there’s something interesting that I want to bring up to everyone on the blog. As many of you know, I’m not really in to New Year’s resolutions – I think that they are a crock of shit. They are just a complete waste of time.