You really need to think about this for a few minutes: when you get a brand new gas grill and you’re going to put it together, do you read the directions or do you just figure it out?

When you go and buy a brand new big screen TV, do you just figure out what plugs into what or do you do it by the book?

When you go and get a brand new car, do you ever crack open the owner’s manual?

Never, right?

But then why do men think that women should come with a manual?

When you first talk to a woman, it doesn’t have to be so complicated. The obvious things are the best things because it means that you are paying attention to the little things. If you think about what past girlfriends and other women have said – it’s all about the little things. All the little things make life so much better.

If you pay attention to the little things, women will feel like you’ve actually connected with them. They’ll think, wow, this guy actually paid attention! He was actually present. He wasn’t just trying to pick me up with some type of ridiculous routine.

It’s the obvious things. You need to start thinking and picking up on everything that is obvious. If you don’t, you’re just going to be looking at a barbeque gas grill manual.

Everyone who has worked with me for a weekend always notices the same thing about me and how I function. Like John, a new client. What do you notice about my behavior?

John: What do I notice about your behavior? It seems very natural, very easy to you. And everything you say is very obvious.

But once I’m not with you, it seems like I’m reaching again for the perfect thing to say, and then I’m waiting. And finally it’s like, ugh, I’ve waited too long, now do I move ahead or just let it go?

David: Right, and that’s why repetition is important. You notice that we’re doing the same things over and over again, right? I asked John if he talked to those women in Pinkberry and he said, “no, I wasn’t attracted to them.” And I said, “I’m not attracted to 90% of the people I talk to, but I’m getting to know some great people.”

Just because I don’t want to go out with someone doesn’t mean that they’re not a great person worth talking to. It doesn’t mean that I can’t learn something from them. It doesn’t mean that I can’t meet their friends down the road – it’s all about building up that power and social network.

John: And the fact that those girls at Pinkberry were looking at that furniture book – even if we hadn’t been to that furniture store I still could have just picked up on that and said something about it.

David: Yeah, it was the obvious thing. Furniture shop, redecorating your house… think about the things that come to your mind. An exercise that I tell guys to do is to take 20 common, everyday words – like coffee, groceries, furniture, fresh fruit, gas stations, whatever – write them down and create a story about each of those words.

If you think about it, you can say something about every one of those twenty words. Every word. For gas stations, you think: gas is under $4.00 a gallon now. So then the next time you’re filling up at a gas station, you can say, “holy shit, gas dropped below $4.00 a gallon!”

Everything can be created from that story. The obvious things are the things that you already know and things you can talk about.

Furthermore, if you state the obvious, you won’t break her train of thought, and if you don’t, she’s going to wonder why the fuck you’re talking about something that’s out of left field.

So do you see the difference there? The difference is huge!

Now that we have that out of the way. Lets talk about sexual tension.

We had a server issue the last 2 days and I apologize for any problems you may have had getting on the blog.

My tech guy worked through the night fixing it….ok maybe not through the night but you get my attempted humor!!

Today we needed a break from yesterdays highly emotional topic. Today we get to think about something more fun, plus i have an amazing workout podcast at the end of todays blog for all!

Have a great day!!! I in am back NYC for the next few days……Have any of you ever hung out in Mystic CT?

Wow what a pretty part of the country! My mother just moved there and I spent the last few days poking around the coastal towns.
I have to confess, that i was this close to walking into one of the real estate brokers office and looking at homes.

It was so peaceful and mellow up there!!!

When I was in high school growing up, all I ever wanted was a hummer. I used to walk the halls all the time, looking at the hotties from Laura Stewart to Christa Santangelo to Inky Olson to Amy Huddish to Lisa Rutman to Allison Williams… all I ever thought about was getting one of these girls to give me a hummer!

What would it take? Did I need to beg? Did I need to plead? Did I need to ask for the hummer? What was I doing wrong?

Apparently, nothing – now, I can go get a hummer whenever I want – I can walk into a Chevy dealership, put down $650 a month, and I get a hummer!

A man that drives a hummer is really a man that has blowjob envy. Who wants to drive a blowjob? I’d rather receive a blowjob, and enjoy a blowjob, then pay $4.77 per gallon to drive around in my blowjob!

I really do not want to spend $4.77 per gallon to drive around a bright yellow blowjob, or as most guys refer to it, a Hummer.

So all of you out there who drive these things, you really do have blowjob envy!

And let’s talk about some of these other macho cars there are out there these days – what does it say about a guy that drives an Avalanche? Is he someone that likes danger? What is he looking for with an Avalanche? Is he looking for a woman with G-spot squirting orgasms? What exactly is an Avalanche?

Or a Tahoe. What, are you driving a lake? I’d rather go to Lake Tahoe, hang out, and have some fun, than drive one of those big Tahoes around.

It’s funny that a lot of cars resemble what a lot of men wish that they were.

I have a friend who has a beautiful home with a beautiful view, and every time he throws a party he makes sure that his Ferrari is parked in the driveway. Whenever women come over there, they always whisper to me, “David, why does your friend have to park his penis in the driveway?”

It’s really funny – men and their cars. Men talk about horsepower, men talk about revving high – but the only engine that I ever want to rev high is the engine of a beautiful woman.

I drive a Saab – what does that make me? Someone who complains, someone who whines? David drives a Saab, and he sobs all the time. Really, what does that make me? I’m a Saab driver. I’ve had a lot of Saabs. I’ve had BMWs, and I’ve had Audis – I’ve driven just about every car under the rainbow.

But I’ve never driven a blowjob – I’ve only received one. And I’ve never wanted to be in an avalanche – not in Colorado or in one of those big little pickup trucks.

And what’s up with the Navigator? I’d rather BE the navigator. I’d rather be the guy that takes the woman on an adventure instead of having to go drive around in a Navigator. “I drive a Navigator” – I can’t even say it!

But then again, there is the man that drives a little Chevy Cavalier. What does make him? Cute and perky? “Look! Cavalier guy!”

Car names are really funny. What does your car say about you?

And for women, what do you look for in a guy that drives a car – what do you look for in the car?

What about the car with the little horse as the symbol – the Mustang. Are you a guy that has stud envy? Do you drive a Mustang because you have trouble getting it up? You wish you were a mustang – “I’m a mustang.”

And what about a Ferrari? Do you want to be some good-looking, well-dressed Italian guy but you’re really the guy whose belly touches the steering wheel in his Ferrari and he barely fits into it?

Or what about a Touareg? What exactly is a Touareg?

What exactly is a Cayenne? As far as I know, a cayenne is actually a type of pepper that you put on your food that makes you cry when you speak. But what happens if you drive a Cayenne? Are your eyes supposed to water when you touch the steering wheel because of all of the pepper that is in the car?

Car names are very funny. They are made to be macho. But when push comes to shove, I’ll gladly receive a hummer instead of driving one.

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Yesterday we talked about a few quotes. Some of you embraced them, some of you fought them. Life is all about embracing new concepts and thinking outside the box.

Today lets talk about being Rich….lets make a lot of money….or maybe there is a whole new way of being rich besides trading oil.

People spend their entire lives chasing things. Men spend their lives chasing women. Women might chase love. Men might chase money.

And then we finally get these things – some of us get that love, and some of us get the money – we think that we’re really rich. This society is based on the idea that if you’re a millionaire you are rich.

But I’m going to give you a whole different version of what I consider being rich. I’m rich. I’m rich in every aspect of my life. Financially, I’m fine. Emotionally, I kick ass. I have friends I love; I have friends all over the world. My soul is enriched every single day by the things that I do – because I only do things that I love. I’ve got the most fantastic dog in the world. I have people that I work with that are fantastic and amazing. I get on an airplane and I get to travel to places, I get to do things, and I get to experience things.

I lead a rich lifestyle, because everything that I do makes me feel rich – rich as a person. But the greatest thing about being rich is that you absolutely love yourself. You love everything about yourself. I’m not talking egotistically – I’m not talking about walking around with a big ego saying, “I’m the greatest person in the entire world” – not that at all.

What I’m saying in this situation is that you are content with who you are – you’ve accepted all the things about you – you believe in yourself, and in your little nuances. Maybe the fact is that you have skinny legs, or maybe your ass never looks perfect in a pair of jeans – whatever it might be. You’ve embraced all of your insecurities.

You can look at yourself in the mirror everyday and say that life is an amazing gift. Every second of every single day I’m going to spend living my life, experiencing my life and being an active participant in my life – that is the definition of being rich.

There are people who will always have more money than you, and there will be people who will always have more things than you. But the fact is that spoiling yourself in little ways is what’s important.

For instance, going out and buying yourself something you really like – if you can afford it, embrace it and do it. Going out there and having dinner with a friend you haven’t seen in a long time, sharing your heart and sharing your soul – that’s a rich experience.

Everybody should lead a rich lifestyle. It doesn’t take money. Once again, we always want other things. People always think, I’m going to be happy as soon as I get better skills and connect with the opposite sex. I’m going to be happy if I can fall in love.

Or there are a lot of women on the internet that are 39 years old and they think, well I’m not going to be happy until I have a family. You know what? You’re not happy right now! So you’re going to attract all the wrong people and you’re not going to live a very rich lifestyle.

I want to add that also for a lot of people, the idea of being rich is to accumulate things. That’s how they believe they will reach that acceptance of themselves, that contentment.

But to me, and what I always say is that you become happier and more comfortable with yourself by learning to let go of everything you thought you needed.

Eventually, what you learn is that you need to let go of everything – your fears, your desires, and everything else so you can find the true essence of yourself. Once you do, that’s when you define yourself and find out who you truly are.

Once you get there, it’s just easier. When you believe yourself, you realize that you are perfect as you are. You’re not the BEST – there’s a big difference in believing that you’re perfect the way you are and disillusioning yourself into believing that you’re better than everybody else. You’re not the best. But you are perfect as you were created. You’re perfect as you are.

Everything you need to succeed and be happy in life is already in you. You just have to rediscover it, because something clouded that part of you before. Whether it’s your experiences, positive or negative – it doesn’t matter. But it’s really about rediscovering what you already had.

Most people don’t see that – they keep on adding things to their lives and that creates more junk to remove later. That’s why a lot of people can’t be content. Instead of removing all the junk, they keep on adding junk to their life, which makes it more confusing and more difficult for them to define themselves and realize who they truly are.

Todays video is all about how you are going to spend your money. On booze repelling women or on improving yourself.