I’m going to tell you something that you might not believe, but it is 100% true so pay attention: There is no such thing as rejection!
Rejection is just an insecurity in your own mind. Think about it, rejection doesn’t really exist. It is a made-up thought and a made-up word.
How many of you have had this happen: You go out on one date with someone. You like them, and thought they were the coolest person in the entire world. So you call them after the date, and they never call you back.
Did any of you have a date this weekend?
How did it go?
How would it feel to be completely honest on a first date? Check out how this guy decided to approach first date honesty.
How many of you are always waiting for your friends so you can do things? You want your friends to do things with you. You want to go to this place or that place. You want to go out and meet women.
Do you get a lot of first dates, but not a lot of second dates? Why is this happening?
Do you suffer from boring dates?
I’m a firm believer that whoever asks someone out on a date, should pay for that date. If you’re a woman and you ask a guy out on a date, then you pay for that date. It’s 2010. Pay for the date. You asked him out. He didn’t ask you out, so he doesn’t need to pay. Now I’m sure that there are women reading this right now thinking, “Wait a second. Men are always supposed to pay for the first date.”
Do you put too much pressure on a first date? Are you so nervous on that date that you’re afraid to talk? Are you always nervous that you might say the wrong thing?
Congratulations, man. I’m so glad that you hooked up! You’ve got a great date coming up. So, what are you going to do? Are you going to do the “same old same old” first date of going out to dinner where you watch each other chew across the table, swap resumes and then end the night wondering whether you should kiss her? To me…
I always get emails from people about dates, and what are the best things to do on them. People are always asking me, “is dinner and a movie okay?”
Sure, dinner and a movie are great – if you want to sit there in silence and stare at a screen for two hours. You drop them off at the end of the night and you haven’t learned a thing about them the entire evening!
