I’m going to tell you something that you might not believe, but it is 100% true so pay attention: There is no such thing as rejection!
Rejection is just an insecurity in your own mind. Think about it, rejection doesn’t really exist. It is a made-up thought and a made-up word.
How many of you have had this happen: You go out on one date with someone. You like them, and thought they were the coolest person in the entire world. So you call them after the date, and they never call you back.
I’m a firm believer that whoever asks someone out on a date, should pay for that date. If you’re a woman and you ask a guy out on a date, then you pay for that date. It’s 2010. Pay for the date. You asked him out. He didn’t ask you out, so he doesn’t need to pay. Now I’m sure that there are women reading this right now thinking, “Wait a second. Men are always supposed to pay for the first date.”
Congratulations, man. I’m so glad that you hooked up! You’ve got a great date coming up. So, what are you going to do? Are you going to do the “same old same old” first date of going out to dinner where you watch each other chew across the table, swap resumes and then end the night wondering whether you should kiss her? To me…