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Wednesday, November 18th, 2009
In over 14 years of doing this, I think I have heard it all. I think I have heard every fear imaginable — fear of approaching, fear of getting intimate, fear of saying what’s on your mind and even fear of initiating that first kiss.
You guys have labeled all these things in so many different and creative ways, from monkey chatter to approach anxiety. I mean, if you Google “fear,” it is amazing how many different versions of it will pop up in the search results.
What I am about to share with you in today’s podcast is going to blow you away. I know that every week I tell you that the podcast is the most powerful one ever, but that is because every week I come up with something more powerful than the week before.
In this podcast, I am going to tell you why there are only two emotions in this world: one is love and the other is fear. Hate is fear. Approach anxiety is fear.
Love and fear really are the only two emotions, and in this podcast I explain to you how to really embrace loving everything and fearing nothing. Click here to listen now:
Also, if you want to learn how to truly embrace love in your life and also how to truly erase fear, then you need to check out my Men’s “What’s Your Excuse?” and my Women’s “No Excuses” programs.
Tags: advice, approach anxiety, Date, dating, Dating Advice, dating tips, david wygant, fear, fear and love, fear of approaching, fear of love, google, how to kiss, kiss, kissing, love, monkey chatter, podcast, tips
Posted in Dave's Faves, Life Style 101, Love, Mindset | 34 Comments »
Wednesday, October 28th, 2009
This is interesting. How many of you live a life about which you are absolutely not passionate?
You go to a job. You date someone to whom you are not attracted. You may not even like your dog. Whatever it may be, how many of you can’t speak about your life with passion?
If you can’t, do you know why you can’t? It is because you are really not in love with who you are.
Passion comes from within. People who speak with passion, speak from power that comes from within themselves. Meaning, they love everything about themselves.
They’ve accepted their insecurities. They’ve accepted their fears. They’ve accepted all these things about themselves, and they have embraced themselves.
Today’s podcast is going to teach you how to speak from a place of true passion and how to live a passionate life. This is a “must listen” to podcast. It’s that important and that big.
I can’t even adequately express in writing what I want to tell all of you. You need to hear me talk about it in today’s podcast. So I’m just going to stop my fingers from typing on the computer right now, and I’m going to give you the link for the podcast so you can listen to it right now.
Click here to listen:
If you want to learn about my personal journey to self-love, and how to go on that journey for yourself, be sure to check out my “Self-Love” Audios which are part of my Men’s “What’s Your Excuse?” and Women’s “No Excuses” programs.
Tags: advice, computer, david wygant, fear, insecurity, lifestyle, live with passion, Mindset, self help, self love, tips
Posted in Life Style 101, Mindset | 36 Comments »
Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009
Jason Voorhees is coming at you right now at summer camp holding a gigantic knife. Freddy Krueger is pulling you into the bed. Bruce, the mechanical shark from Jaws, is swimming right toward you at top speed.
The Bogeyman is actually in your closet. Remember when you were a little kid, and you were absolutely terrified to look under your bed because you thought the Bogeyman (or that evil clown from the movie Poltergeist) was hiding under it?
Remember all these terrifying moments as a child? You just couldn’t look inside that closet no matter what because you were truly afraid that the Bogeyman was hiding inside of it.
Do you know who the Bogeyman really is? Go to the mirror right now. Look in the mirror. Go ahead and take a good look in the mirror. YOU are the Bogeyman!
That’s right. You are the Bogeyman, because every fear that you have ever had in your entire life has been manifested in your own mind. Every fear. Every single one of them.
What is the Bogeyman in your head? Even more important, what is the biggest, scariest Bogeyman in your head?
You may have a fear of approaching the opposite sex. If you do, that is your Bogeyman.
You may have a fear of intimacy when you get close to somebody. If you do, then that is your Bogeyman.
You may have a fear of asking somebody out or calling them back. If you do, then that is your Bogeyman.
All of us need to learn how to eliminate the Bogeyman, because the Bogeyman is actually the scared little boy or girl that you really are.
Today’s podcast is not only going to blow you away, (and will make you think and laugh more than you have in a LONG time!) . . . but I have a very secret message that is at the very end of it. So be SURE you don’t miss it!!
Also, if you want to know how to get rid of that Bogeyman who lives in your head, check out my Men’s and Women’s No Excuses programs — In them, I take you through MY own journey and tell you how I got rid of my Bogeyman. I also show you step by step how to breakthrough and overcome every Bogeyman in your own head and get rid of them for good!
And for those of you who are a member of my private members site. Check out the video I posted today on the Bogeyman. This is a classic video!!
Tags: boogyman, confidence, fear, help, overcome fear, self help
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce, Goals & Aspirations | 121 Comments »
Friday, October 10th, 2008
Think about this Zen-like principle: if you walk over to someone and expect nothing, you’ll accept everything from them.
If you expect nothing from people, then you will accept every gift that they give you – the gift of themselves, and the gift of sharing with you.
Life is just a series of continual conversations. Whenever you meet somebody you connect with and find interesting, you want to continue that conversation with them, right?
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Tags: Conversation, conversation starters, fear, meet men, meet womenn, shy, ultimate
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 11 Comments »
Saturday, September 13th, 2008
Its Saturday and we are having a great bootcamp. One guy already had this amazing breakthrough, he was so shy when he flew here yesterday and last night he was able to approach any woman he saw.
Its awesome when I see someone transform and really break through their fears.
Today’s blog is something we go over in all the bootcamps.
Also check out the bootcamp schedule on the home page. Only 3 more left this year!
I’m all about creating positive energy wherever I go, because to me, life is a party. If you’re not going to go out there and enjoy every single moment of every single day, then you are just wasting your time.
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Tags: anxiety, approach anxiety, approach women, brentwood, clothing, fear, Los Angeles, meet hot women, pickup women
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Divorce | 19 Comments »
Friday, September 12th, 2008
Its Friday and I am about to start working with 11 guys who are in for the LA bootcamp.
One of the things we will be going over is rejection and how to overcome the fear of approaching. Here is a quick mindset tip for all of you to use this weekend.
Have a great Friday!!
David: Did you see me on the front page of the LA Times today? If you didn’t, too bad – you really would have been amazed at the article.
There was a big picture of me on the front page, and then this article about how I had approached some woman in Coffee Bean or something, and totally got rejected. On the front page! It’s unbelievable.
Just last week I was on the cover of People – I’m not sure where it was I was rejected last week – where was it that I was rejected and made the cover of People magazine? God, I don’t even remember.
And did you see that annoying supermarket flyer that comes in your mailbox? Did you see the one from Whole Foods this week? There’s a big picture of me, getting rejected on aisle seven. I can’t believe they actually took a picture of that!
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Tags: approach anxiety, approach women, fear, front page, Mindset, overcome rejection
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Divorce | 8 Comments »
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