Halloween. Wow, We are really rolling through 2011. Pretty soon we’ll be up to another one of my most overrated holidays — Thanksgiving.

I do know what I’m going to be for Halloween, though, this year. I am going to be jet lag.

Yesterday we dug into the ego and how it it can cause major issues in dating and relationships. If you have not read it check it out before you dig into todays blog.

The weekend is over and yes my beloved Jets do suck. Sanchez is exactly what most USC qbs are in the NFL. Very mediocre. But today is not about why the Jets have gone bad, today is all about how your Ego is killing your dating life.

I have a great new app for iPhones. It’s perfect. It’s something you need to install and download right away on your own phone. As a matter of fact, I am going to call Apple, and I’m going to get this thing done. It’s an app that is called…

Every day you need to look at how your actions affect others. You also need to look at how dropping your ego is important not only for your personal growth, but so that love can grow deeper. Understanding how your actions affect others could be life’s biggest challenge. I know I’ve written about this before (and probably a lot) in the blog, but I think this is something we all need to learn.

We’re all flawed. Every one of us is flawed. If you are talking to someone you trust, honor and love and they tell you that your actions cause them pain and to feel things they never wanted to feel, do you defend those actions? Would you really listen? In life, our ego is constantly…

Sometimes with our egos we don’t get anything. It’s good to have a healthy ego — to feel good about yourself and love who you are as a person. Where ego can really ruin you, though, is in dating and relationships. How many of you…

I used to be you. I used to be “that guy.”

Anyone who has read me knows that there is something I say over and over again (because it is so important!): To be able to truly love yourself and to truly be able to love someone else, you must drop the ego. This is absolutely essential to finding an amazing relationship, but it’s equally critical to maintaining and continually improving a relationship once you’re already in it.

Are you ego-driven? Are you one of those people whose egos are so big that you are Mr. or Ms. Know-it-All? Do you think that everything that you do is the right way to do it?