I woke up this morning to a great email from a past bootcamp client. As part of my Monday routine I have to clear out a ton of emails from the weekend and then once I do that, I can actually read what is important.

I just got off the phone with a client and I had to share this with all of you.

I could not wait till tomorrows blog……I think all of you will enjoy this!

So you’re in a conversation with some people, and the conversation is not going in your direction. Perhaps it’s about something that you don’t know much about, or something that you don’t understand – or it’s just about something that you’re not passionate about.

Men tend to be very outcome dependent. Many men approach women with one goal in mind: to get their phone number. Such men think if they approach a woman, they must get her phone number in order for that approach to have been successful. These men, in fact, will base their entire assessment of an encounter on whether a woman gives them her phone number. This type of mindset is what I’m referring to when I talk about outcome dependence.

During this holiday travel season you may see this and think.

What the hell is wrong with people?

People on an airplane act like total animals. They read a magazine and then throw it on the ground. They drink a bottle of water and then throw that on the ground too.

What do they think? The flight attendants are just maids in the sky? That they are going to just clean up after them entirely?

People act like total pigs when they get on airplane. They bring on the most disgusting food, like McDonalds. McDonalds is the WORST thing in the world you could bring into an enclosed space. They never think about other people.

Today I am posting below our first womens video.

Its time we gave the women of our site the same treatment and great videos that the men get.

But first you all need to read about how ego ruins you.

Here you are, hanging out with a woman you’ve been out with three or four times. You’re getting along great, and you know it. You’re having a good time, and then all of a sudden, one of you

In life, we tend to try to protect ourselves all of the time with our egos. We spend so much time worrying about everything – someone didn’t text me back quickly enough, someone didn’t email me back yet, someone hasn’t called me back!

And then you meet someone who turns you on more than anyone you’ve met in a long time and they don’t respond to an email right away.

Here’s the problem with having a minimalist approach in life.