I was reading Men’s Health Magazine, and was a woman named Minka Kelly (Derek Jeter’s girlfriend) who was quoted as saying, “I think brutal honesty is extremely important. I wold rather be an honest friend than a phony lover.” How many men and women really hear that? I don’t know who Minka Kelly is, nor do I care. I don’t care if Derek Jeter is screwing her. What she said in that quote, however, really resonates and rings true.