In any relationship you want, the person should know how to treat you right. Also don’t forget you should know how to treat them right too, so it’s not just a one-sided thing. It’s so true. When we’re in a relationship with ourselves, we take care of all our needs, we take care of all our wants, we take care of all our desires, we learn how to treat ourselves right. When we’re in a relationship, we want somebody to pamper us, to treat us great, to make us feel some kind of wonderful.

Because nothing beats that feeling. Nothing beats being able to drift into someone’s arms and know that you’re with one of the most amazing women you’ve ever met. Because we’re all looking for that some kind of wonderful. That’s why all of you guys are single, or most of you are single and reading this. So I want all of you to listen to Grand Funk Railroad, “Some Kind of Wonderful” and I want to make that your theme lyrics. It’s really important. Here are their lyrics for you guys if you want to read it. Take a look at the lines in there. It’s really good stuff in there. I want all of you to hold out for that, otherwise you won’t be satisfied.

I don’t need a whole lots of money,
I don’t need a big fine car.
I got everything that a man could want,
I got more than I could ask for.
I don’t have to run around,
I don’t have to stay out all night.
‘Cause I got me a sweet … a sweet, lovin’ woman,
And she knows just how to treat me right.

Well my baby, she’s alright,
Well my baby, she’s clean out-of-sight.
Don’t you know that she’s … she’s some kind of wonderful.
She’s some kind of wonderful … yes she is, she’s,
She’s some kind of wonderful, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeahhh …

When I hold her in my arms,
You know she sets my soul on fire.
Oooh, when my baby kisses me,
My heart becomes filled with desire.
When she wraps her lovin’ arms around me,
About drives me out of my mind.
Yeah, when my baby kisses me,
Chills run up and down my spine.

My baby, she’s alright,
My baby, she’s clean out-of-sight.
Don’t you know that she is … she’s some kind of wonderful.
She’s some kind of wonderful … yes she is,

I woke up this morning next to a beautiful woman and had these thoughts to share with you.

Think about this: there’s a woman that you’re friends with and she convinces you to go on a blind date. How many times has that happened?

Or, your woman friend is throwing a party, and she says that all of her good-looking friends are going to be there. You go to the party, and you look around, and you say to her, “well where are all of your good-looking friends?” and she says, “they’re all here!”

This biggest clue that men can take from this is that women basically think all of their friends are beautiful. That’s what they do: they look from the inside out – while men look from the outside in.

This is something that men don’t grasp. If you look at the way women think about their friends, you might not find them appealing, but women find them incredibly sexy and beautiful.

Basically, it’s the same exact thing when women look at a man. You can never compare yourself to other guys, because women will look at you from the inside out. They don’t know that they’re attracted to you until they meet you. That’s what is phenomenal.