We don’t talk about one-night stands that often. Let’s talk about them from the women’s side today.
When it comes to one-night stands for women, I say go for it! Go have a one-night stand. They’re amazing for your sexuality. They’ll make you feel free. You’ll have a blast, and I want you to do it with no guilt. If you choose to have a one-night stand, just pick a guy and have fun. Don’t judge yourself. Don’t allow your friends to judge you.

Life is like call waiting. Call waiting is so annoying. I seems like it has gotten even more annoying. I think it used to be just two beeps, and that was it. Now it seems to go on beeping forever. Well at least if you have an iPhone or a BlackBerry you can hit ‘ignore’ and not hear the beeping go off. Life, though, is a lot like call waiting. There is…

So you’re dating someone new and they ask you this: “So tell me, how many relationships have you had?” At that point, you’re thinking “Here it comes…” It is almost like the ominous background music from a movie. You know once someone asks you that question, that they are inevitably going to next ask you what went wrong in those relationships and why you are no longer with those people.

I’m a firm believer that whoever asks someone out on a date, should pay for that date. If you’re a woman and you ask a guy out on a date, then you pay for that date. It’s 2010. Pay for the date. You asked him out. He didn’t ask you out, so he doesn’t need to pay. Now I’m sure that there are women reading this right now thinking, “Wait a second. Men are always supposed to pay for the first date.”

Are you cheap? I want to talk about who should pay for the first date, and what the perceptions are about this. If you actually allow women to split the bill on a first date, then you need to listen up and listen carefully to today’s podcast.

Do you put too much pressure on a first date? Are you so nervous on that date that you’re afraid to talk? Are you always nervous that you might say the wrong thing?

When you’re dating, you spend a lot of time giving your phone number to people. You write it down on a piece of paper or you hand out a business card. Then, you wait. You wait for the person to call. The, at some point, the phone rings. You look at the number but you don’t recognize it. So what do so many of us do? We don’t answer it.

Here is a question that gets asked a lot, but one I don’t think we’ve ever covered in the blog. Say you’re on a date with a woman and she says, “Don’t worry, we can spit the bill.” What do you do in that situation? I can tell you what I’ve done the majority of my life. Unless I was broke and poor, and just plain couldn’t afford it, I’ve responded to that by saying “No, I’ll take care of it. You can get me another time.”

Here I am, sitting next to a couple of iTards. Do you know what iTards are? iTards are basically two people who sit across a table from each other and instead of conversing, they just pass an iPhone back and forth to each other. “Look at my picture!” “Wow, look at the new YouTube video that just got posted!” “Wow, check this website out!” This made me realize that…

A client of mine was just asking me about how to handle something that happens all too often in a bar. Now my client knows I am not a big fan of the bars, but lots of people do go to them. It’s always good times when you go to the bar to have fun with your friends, and you run into who I call Mr. Testosterone . . . or, really, Joe Jerk. I call these guys Joe Jerk because they are guys who…