Be Memorable – Part Two By David Wygant

Wherever you go, you need to always talk to people – everywhere. You need to stop chasing women and start attracting people into your life.

You have to start being memorable. Memorable people get somewhere in life. If you’re not memorable, you won’t get anywhere in life.

So how do you become memorable?

Very easily. Everywhere you go, you need to walk in there and make people feel great. If you go to a sunglass store, and you’ve bought sunglasses there before, walk in and say, “hey, how are you today?” Talk to the person who is selling you the sunglasses. Get to know them a little bit. So then the next time you walk in there, they know you, they remember you, and they greet you like an old friend.

You want to have a circle of friends. What will happen if you start networking through your life is that people will start remembering you and doing favors for you. It could be something as simple as just getting an extra slice of cheese on your sandwich, or getting a free soda at the deli.

But the bottom line is that most people don’t engage others in conversation. If you are able to engage people in conversation, you will become memorable. People will remember you.

Life is so much about nonverbal communication. For instance, you go into a store and there is a beautiful woman standing there, and you walk in with some approach anxiety – you don’t know what to say to her. But if the two clerks in the store know who you are, they will walk over and say, “hey, how are you today?” and you can tell them you’re doing great.

The next key thing is to remember things about these people. If you have a bad memory, then start taking notes. Buy a Blackberry or an iPhone, and start taking notes about all of the people that you meet.

That way, when you go into a store you will remember things about the people there. So here you are standing in the same store, about to order a sandwich, and you’re having approach anxiety with the woman standing there because you don’t know what to say – yet you remember the guy behind the counter just had a baby.

You look at the guy behind the counter and say, “hey, how’s the little kid treating you? Are you getting enough sleep?” He answers, “oh man, thanks for asking. I haven’t been able to sleep in so long…”

All of a sudden, the woman standing there will notice what is going on – she’ll notice the energy that is being created. You’ve created positive energy, and she’s noticed. So she will start looking at you in an entirely different light. She will see how the guy behind the counter is looking at you favorably.

This is what life is all about – so much nonverbal communication. So you need to become memorable wherever you go.

Today I have 2 podcasts for you that will make your Sunday more fun. The first one is how to give your man a great erotic massage. Men you need to listen to this one…..something to keep in mind the next time you have a woman over.

The second one is all about how to stop trying to be so perfect and just have fun in life!!

Chasing the Night By David Wygant

Happy Friday!!

Are you going to chase the night tonight or attract the night?

This blog is part of a live coaching from a recent trip to London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am coaching clients and leading bootcamps!
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Create Energy Everywhere By David Wygant

This blog is part of a live coaching from London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am coaching clients and leading bootcamps!

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Deeper Bragging
By David Wygant

Have you ever met the man of your dreams . . . or maybe he’s the man of your nightmares? You know this guy. You’re on a date with him. He starts talking about himself. Then he starts bragging . . .

He starts bragging about the stuff he has. At first he might bring up the kind of car he drives. Then he may tell you about the house (or houses) he owns. He has even produced a movie. You sit there listening and nodding your head, while he hasn’t listened to anything you have to say.

Then, all of a sudden, he goes into another mode. He shifts from bragging mode into what I call “deeper bragging” mode. Deeper bragging involves talking about some of the super-great things a man has or has done. Perhaps he has a horse who won the Kentucky Derby four year ago. What a stud he is!

What a man in deeper bragging mode will brag about may vary, but as he continues to talk each thing he says escalates into deeper and deeper bragging. Mr. Deeper Bragging never listens, often because the woman that he’s talking to is young enough to be his daughter.

That woman doesn’t usually care if Mr. Deeper Bragging listens because he is just a meal ticket to her. The thing about meal tickets, though, is that they are often accompanied by wonderful repetitive cycles of deeper bragging.

With every sentence, the deeper bragging escalates in his efforts to impress this young woman. Really though, how hard is it when you’re a 50 year-old man to impress a 20 year-old girl? It’s not really too hard.

Mr. Deeper Bragging doesn’t get it though, because do you know what happens him at the end of the night? Mr. Deeper Bragging ends up all alone in his big house with his bottle of KY Jelly going from deeper jerking off to watching deeper porn on his 68-inch plasma television set.

Mr. Deeper Bragging has no clue that the key to meeting women is not just bragging. You have to lose the deeper bragging and learn deeper listening skills.

Todays podcast is all about taking action in your life.

Are you a talker or are a doer?

Which one are you and how to take control and become a doer!!!