Today, I want you not to read, but to watch and listen. If you’ve ever wanted to know how to appear confident every time you approach a woman, this video is a “must see” for you! This video is not only a great example of something I teach, but I also tell you how I used this technique in my own life. Enjoy and have a great Saturday!
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Approach Women: How To Appear Confident Every Time
Saturday, November 14th, 2009Big Announcement!
Thursday, November 5th, 2009I was going to set up a press conference today at Green Bay Packers’ headquarters, where I was going to stand in front of a podium and have my Brett Favre moment . . . complete with tears and regret. I was going to have Sonja stand behind me with her hand on my shoulder showing her support.
As some of you know, this was going to be my last year personally coaching Bootcamps. I have an amazing team of coaches who would have carried on for me brilliantly, and they will continue to do an amazing job coaching for me.
As for my decision to stop coaching Bootcamps myself at the end of this year, though, and as the NFL field judges say, upon further review I have changed my mind. No, not about how fantastic my coaches are, but about coaching the Bootcamps myself after the end of 2009.
It’s what I love to do. Not only that, I personally believe my Bootcamps are superior to all the garbage ones that are out there being taught by pretend wannabe experts.
So no retirement from coaching Bootcamps for me. The Bootcamps will move forward with me (and my team of coaches) coaching them in 2010, 2011, 2012 and beyond. It’s going to take a serious ACL injury to get me out of the Bootcamp coaching game.
For those of you who thought I was walking away from everything, I have just one question for you. Are you crazy? I’m not going anywhere (except maybe on a few trips next year).
There are, however, some great new things I’ll be coming out with next year and in the near future. We’re already kicking off some great new ideas.
Adam (my head instructor in London) and I have come up with an amazing seminar that will be taking place in London in a few weeks which is FREE. Click here to check it out.
For the women, we’re doing a killer seminar in Los Angeles this Sunday (November 8th). Click here to learn more about it.
For anyone who don’t know my team, I’ve hand-selected and personally trained every person who works with me. Not only have I personally trained them, but they all stand alone as amazing coaches. Your experience with any one of them would be just as satisfying as your experience would be with me.
My team and I plan on doing a lot of new programs next year. One of them is going to be an incredible inner mindset seminar. Details, of course, to follow next year…
We will also be launching a new live at home coaching program. That’s right — one of us will be spending two to seven nights on your sofa in the near future!
I’ve been doing this for 14 years. Brett Favre has been playing for 18 years. As long as he keeps throwing touchdown passes, I’m going to keep changing and affecting the lives of people who attend our workshops, seminars and Bootcamps.
Of course we’ll be coming out with a slew of new products, because as the dating world changes we are always ready to show you how to change with it!
So, mandatory retirement used to be at age 65. I plan on teaching a bunch of shuffle boarders in Florida the art of meeting hot sexy 80 year olds when I’m 80.
I will have the first and only geriatric pickup bootcamp in the history of the world.
I can see it now — my pants hiked up high to my chest leading around a bunch of guys who are all on arthritis medication who want to chase after some hot, sexy, experienced older women.
Thirty years from now, everyone who attends my geriatric Bootcamp will get a week’s worth of Cialis and Celebrex. Not only that, most of the people in my Bootcamp will have enlarged prostates, so I’ll have to give out something for that too. I can already see my Bootcamps in thirty years being sponsored by the pharmaceutical companies.
In the meantime, I’m young and healthy and ready to walk the next group of guys around at the the next Bootcamp. So this is the big announcement!
For those of you who were thinking to yourself, “Where’s my dating tip of the day?”, don’t worry. Here are a few tips for you. . .
1. PUT THE TIP IN FIRST: You don’t ever want to go in backwards.
2. USE THE DAVID WYGANT/BRETT FAVRE APPROACH: For those of you who may not be having sex today (and, hence, can’t make use of tip #1), you may need an approach tip of the day. So here it is: Say to the first person you see, “Did you hear that David Wygant just pulled a Brett Favre?” You want to talk about a great opening line! You meet the right woman, and she won’t know who David Wygant OR Brett Favre are.
3. 55 DAYS TO GO: For those of you who want a date tip, here it is. It’s November 5, 2009. There are approximately 55 days left in the year and before you will hopefully be staring at someone you’re about to kiss when the clock counts down 5-4-3-2-1 to midnight on New Year’s Eve. So the time to take real action on changing your dating life is now.
For those of you who want to see a very teary-eyed video, then check out the video I recorded yesterday. It will make you feel very warm and fuzzy…
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Be Memorable Part 2-Plus 2 Free Podcasts
Sunday, June 1st, 2008Be Memorable – Part Two By David Wygant
Wherever you go, you need to always talk to people – everywhere. You need to stop chasing women and start attracting people into your life.
You have to start being memorable. Memorable people get somewhere in life. If you’re not memorable, you won’t get anywhere in life.
So how do you become memorable?
Very easily. Everywhere you go, you need to walk in there and make people feel great. If you go to a sunglass store, and you’ve bought sunglasses there before, walk in and say, “hey, how are you today?” Talk to the person who is selling you the sunglasses. Get to know them a little bit. So then the next time you walk in there, they know you, they remember you, and they greet you like an old friend.
You want to have a circle of friends. What will happen if you start networking through your life is that people will start remembering you and doing favors for you. It could be something as simple as just getting an extra slice of cheese on your sandwich, or getting a free soda at the deli.
But the bottom line is that most people don’t engage others in conversation. If you are able to engage people in conversation, you will become memorable. People will remember you.
Life is so much about nonverbal communication. For instance, you go into a store and there is a beautiful woman standing there, and you walk in with some approach anxiety – you don’t know what to say to her. But if the two clerks in the store know who you are, they will walk over and say, “hey, how are you today?” and you can tell them you’re doing great.
The next key thing is to remember things about these people. If you have a bad memory, then start taking notes. Buy a Blackberry or an iPhone, and start taking notes about all of the people that you meet.
That way, when you go into a store you will remember things about the people there. So here you are standing in the same store, about to order a sandwich, and you’re having approach anxiety with the woman standing there because you don’t know what to say – yet you remember the guy behind the counter just had a baby.
You look at the guy behind the counter and say, “hey, how’s the little kid treating you? Are you getting enough sleep?” He answers, “oh man, thanks for asking. I haven’t been able to sleep in so long…”
All of a sudden, the woman standing there will notice what is going on – she’ll notice the energy that is being created. You’ve created positive energy, and she’s noticed. So she will start looking at you in an entirely different light. She will see how the guy behind the counter is looking at you favorably.
This is what life is all about – so much nonverbal communication. So you need to become memorable wherever you go.
Today I have 2 podcasts for you that will make your Sunday more fun. The first one is how to give your man a great erotic massage. Men you need to listen to this one…..something to keep in mind the next time you have a woman over.
The second one is all about how to stop trying to be so perfect and just have fun in life!!
Chasing the Night-Meet Hot Women Now
Friday, May 30th, 2008Chasing the Night By David Wygant
Happy Friday!!
Are you going to chase the night tonight or attract the night?
This blog is part of a live coaching from a recent trip to London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am coaching clients and leading bootcamps!
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Create Great First Date Video
Thursday, May 22nd, 2008Create Energy Everywhere By David Wygant
This blog is part of a live coaching from London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am coaching clients and leading bootcamps!
Are You A Deeper Bragger-Plus Free Podcast
Wednesday, May 21st, 2008Deeper Bragging
By David Wygant
Have you ever met the man of your dreams . . . or maybe he’s the man of your nightmares? You know this guy. You’re on a date with him. He starts talking about himself. Then he starts bragging . . .
He starts bragging about the stuff he has. At first he might bring up the kind of car he drives. Then he may tell you about the house (or houses) he owns. He has even produced a movie. You sit there listening and nodding your head, while he hasn’t listened to anything you have to say.
Then, all of a sudden, he goes into another mode. He shifts from bragging mode into what I call “deeper bragging” mode. Deeper bragging involves talking about some of the super-great things a man has or has done. Perhaps he has a horse who won the Kentucky Derby four year ago. What a stud he is!
What a man in deeper bragging mode will brag about may vary, but as he continues to talk each thing he says escalates into deeper and deeper bragging. Mr. Deeper Bragging never listens, often because the woman that he’s talking to is young enough to be his daughter.
That woman doesn’t usually care if Mr. Deeper Bragging listens because he is just a meal ticket to her. The thing about meal tickets, though, is that they are often accompanied by wonderful repetitive cycles of deeper bragging.
With every sentence, the deeper bragging escalates in his efforts to impress this young woman. Really though, how hard is it when you’re a 50 year-old man to impress a 20 year-old girl? It’s not really too hard.
Mr. Deeper Bragging doesn’t get it though, because do you know what happens him at the end of the night? Mr. Deeper Bragging ends up all alone in his big house with his bottle of KY Jelly going from deeper jerking off to watching deeper porn on his 68-inch plasma television set.
Mr. Deeper Bragging has no clue that the key to meeting women is not just bragging. You have to lose the deeper bragging and learn deeper listening skills.
Todays podcast is all about taking action in your life.
Are you a talker or are a doer?
Which one are you and how to take control and become a doer!!!
