We’ve been babied in society. We really have.

How strict are you when it comes down to your own set of dating rules?
Are you a dating “lister”?
Meaning, do you sit down and list all the things you desire in a person and then expect to put yourself out there and meet that very person?………

Long holiday weekend, great Jets game so today I thought we would start the week with some dating humor.
I am sure all of you are back in the office wishing it was Black Friday all over again. But today I hear is cyber monday followed by some kind of tuesday.
It seems that we now name all the days before Christmas. It used to be the 12 days of Christmas now its some named day and were not even close yet. Back to the dating world and today we are all about the clueless people who have no idea that they are a dangler…..

Twas the day before Thanksgiving, and all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not even a turkey.
Oh wait…wrong holiday. This is it: Over the river and through the woods; To grandmother’s house we go!
Who wrote that annoying song anyway? So today, one day before you are attacked by the parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, friends, where they all are going to ask you this one big question……

Perhaps your best friend in the entire world was dating an amazing girl, and the whole time they were dating all you kept thinking was, “Why can’t I meet somebody like her?” Every time you hung out with them in a group, you had such great chemistry with her. She was so cool. You always told your buddy how lucky he was to have a woman like her.

Hey everyone Shogo here heading back on a train from my friends wedding in Connecticut. Good time and it got me thinking about how people love to be challenging.

In dating, being challenging is great.

I was getting my hair cut the other day and my hair cutter (whom I’ve known for a long, long time) got a couple phone calls in the middle of my hair cut. It was interesting.

For some reason so many guys always try to be too nice.

I like to be more mysterious, because I know that’s what will drive the women to really want me.

I got a question from somebody the other day, and I really want to share it with you:

Hey people, Shogo here with another weekend blog post for you!

This week has been really hectic, I’ve been on a lot of coaching calls with clients, and few calls with some of you blog readers from all over the world as well. Just a lot of guys I’ve talked to this week.

There’s one common thread that runs through almost everybody