I was talking to a client on the phone the other night and it really struck me just how much apprehension so many guys have about meeting women.
The fear, the anxiety, the uncertainty. That’s why the majority of men never can figure out what to say.
A while ago I came up with this really fun exercise. I told my client to use the alien approach….

I was picking up some groceries at the market today and something funny happened.
One of the things I always say to the checkout people when they ask you if you want paper or plastic, I always tell them, “No, no paper, no plastic. I’m just going to carry everything out in my hands.”
I like to see if they’re paying attention. So today….

Are you a rehasher?
No, not somebody who orders eggs and hash browns at the diner, takes them home, and then rehashes them the next morning.
The other rehashing.
Are you somebody who will go out on a date………..

I constantly get emails from guys asking me for great date ideas. There are just so many fun great things to do

You pace. You bite your nails. You call all your friends before a date. You suffer from first-date jitters. You spend the day thinking about what you’re going to talk about, what you may be wearing, where you might be going. Trust me, you’re not alone. A lot of people suffer from first date jitters, and I tell you: That’s crazy.

Think about this: 95 percent of first dates never materialize, never ever get past the first date

“Oh my god, my ex is such an a-hole!”

“My ex just texted me…look at this text.”

“Oh, that totally reminds me of this time I was with my ex…”

Is the topic of talking about exes a big no-no for you? Does it make you feel uncomfortable?

So I’m laying around doing my exercises. Literally, laying around doing my exercises next to a woman I’m friends with. We’re sitting in Egoscue, and I’m working on my back….by the way, it’s feeling much better. Anyway, she was describing her date from the other night. She went out with this guy-now listen up, okay, [...]

I was with a client the other day and I was explaining to him how to be more playful.
So when we walked into Sears, I told him to watch and learn just how playful you can really be.

Are you insecure in dating because of your race? Do your friends make fun of your physical imperfections? Well, maybe it’s time for you to find some new friends. Or MAYBE it’s all just in your head…. In keeping with our new found tradition of answering all of your best questions on Podcast Wednesday, today’s [...]

I think we have a new tradition here on the blog.
Every Wednesday, I pick out the weeks best posting or email and turn it into a podcast.
Now before you jam my in-box with emails for next week. I want to set the record straight.