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Wednesday, March 25th, 2009
I just got off the phone with a client and I had to share this with all of you.
I could not wait till tomorrows blog……I think all of you will enjoy this!
There is no reason in life to take things personally.
If you truly respect yourself – if you really think that you’re a great person – then if someone else doesn’t like you, you won’t take it personally.
It just means that you might have some stuff to work on. You have some stuff to do.
Life is just like a mirror – we attract exactly who we are so we can learn the lessons we’re ready to learn.
So if you’re getting blown off on a regular basis and you’re feeling really bummed and obsessing over it, there is a lesson there that you haven’t yet embraced. You haven’t looked deep enough into it. (more…)
Tags: confidence, confident, eckhart tolle, ego, get laid, Goals & Aspirations, hook up, inner game, insecure, laid, oprah, power of now, self esteem
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 44 Comments »
Thursday, October 16th, 2008
I write all the time about ways to go out and meet someone. I am always talking about breaking through fears, getting over rejection and how to present yourself confidently in every situation. Why do I discuss all this, and why are these all things about which you want to learn?
We talk and learn about all this because we want to meet someone who absolutely blows us away. The real reason why we spend so much time and energy working on ourselves and our inner confidence is so we can learn how to love ourselves (by understanding who we truly are and what we’re truly all about). (more…)
Tags: amazing sex, confidence, confident, Conversation, crave for, datng, feel, hot, hot girl, How To Be A Better Communicator, lips, pick up, sexy, tonality, touch, voice, want you
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 52 Comments »
Wednesday, October 1st, 2008
So let’s say there is a guy you are attracted to whom you see all the time. When you see him, he’s always out with his friends, laughing and just having a great time with his buddies. Every time you try to talk to him, though, he gets all nervous.
You’ve got to understand something about this guy. You think this guy is so cool, calm, collected and confident. The truth is that if he’s nervous around you, then he’s interested in you.
Just look at his personality. That’s something that I always tell women.
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Tags: approach anxiety, be yourself, confidence, confident, inner game, nervous, nervousness, self esteem, shy, shyness
Posted in Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 25 Comments »
Thursday, September 18th, 2008
I just landed in London for a weekend bootcamp and I am a bit jet lagged!
I will be here for one week so if anyone wants to do some private coaching next week email me and we can set it up!
I was thinking about something on the plane that I wanted to share with all of you.
There is a certain exercise that I have all of the men and women I coach do. It’s in both my Men’s and Women’s Mastery Series.
It is: what image do you outwardly project to the world? What do other people think of you?
Ask five people what they think about you. What type of energy do you convey? What type of confidence do you convey? What do you look like? How do you dress? Ask five people all of these things.
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Tags: acceptance, confidence, confident, delusion, delusional, height, image, looks, mirror, optical illusion, peronal image, self confidence, self esteem, self image, short, tall, Women
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 16 Comments »
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