Hey friends, do you know what my New Year’s resolution is? That we all get Naked.
Remember when we were little kids, we used to always say “I’ll be your best friend if…”

This has been amazing week of coaching. This live with me coaching program has been a huge success and the guys have had great aha moments and breakthroughs.

We were walking around London last night and I was telling the guys that the best way to meet women at night is to think about what is waiting outside the bar.

Do you suffer from “this won’t work for me syndrome?” “This won’t work for me syndrome” is where you have list of reasons (or really excuses) why everything that works for others won’t work for you. The truth is that all of those excuses are bull.

It’s funny. Someone recently said to me, “All these experts on training, finance and organization are all making money on stuff that no one needs to be taught. It’s 100% instinct. The people who use their instincts have no reason to need someone to teach them how to date. It’s just plain common sense.”

It was the day before the Super Bowl and all through the world, not a creature was stirring – not even a Colt . . . So here’s the deal today – you can win one hour of free coaching with me (details at the end of the blog). In the meantime, I have an amazing video for you to see which is a LIVE in-field video I recently shot at Whole Foods. Check out how Will makes the perfect approach, but then . . . Well, you will need to watch the video to see what happens to him.

I think I’m going to change professions.

Let’s talk a little bit about the monkey chatter – that internal voice that says, “Who is this fucking guy? Why is he bothering me?” That is a constant theme here.

The biggest problem with the monkey chatter is that there are more than just monkeys up there – it’s like a whole zoo! There are apes, gorillas, lions and tigers – there’s a whole brawl going on in your head.

I want to spend today’s blog clarifying a few things about my so-called “retirement.” It seems that a lot of you are reading between the lines, and are misinterpreting what’s really going on with me. So to help make everything crystal clear, here are 10 truths behind my HUGE announcement: 1.I will be coaching Bootcamps [...]

Coaching is not a miracle. There is no miracle out there. Miracle drugs, diets and solutions are really just quick-fix illusions, like that grilled cheese sandwich in 2004 that had the image of the Virgin Mary burned into it. Someone paid $28,000 on eBay for that! Seriously, I’m not making this shit up! (link the last two words of this sentence with http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/4034787.stm)

The point of life is realizing every single day that life itself is actually a miracle.

To get really Zen in your thinking, you need to accept everything that comes into your life and learn from the lessons you are presented with. You need to embrace those lessons and move forward.

It’s important to realize that when you receive coaching of any kind – whether it is a dating bootcamp or coaching on a physical sport – you have to practice.