Years ago, I was vacationing in Boulder, Colorado. One day, after a two-hour massage, I went to Whole Foods for some dinner. As I was walking out, I passed by a gorgeous woman and we had one of those moments. (You know those moments that happen when a woman stares at you and you stare at her at the same time and an extreme sexual chemistry builds up that you can feel? It was one of those…)

People ask me that all the time how they can live an attractive lifestyle. They want to know how to become that person other people want to get to know. They want to know how to walk into a room (or anywhere else) and command attention.

I think a lot of people are really unrealistic. This is especially true when it comes to dating. Think about this. There are 52 weeks and 365 days in a year. Think if you went out and met people every single day with the goal of getting one date per week. I’m not just talking about a date with anyone you can find, but with someone with whom you share a real chemistry connection.

So you walk up to a woman and you start talking to her. It could be about anything. It could be about something really simple. Say you are looking at a sushi bar and you say to her, “Man, there’s a lot of different colors here” and she ignores you. What do you do next? A lot of guys…

How many times have you gone on a date with a woman, and the minute she walks in the room you think to yourself, “Man, I love the way she walks. I love the way she moves?”

Women are always talking about this one thing. If you go out with a group of women and one of them has a new boyfriend, they are always talking about this same thing.

Let’s say the new boyfriend is meeting the group of friends for the first time. Everyone has been introduced politely, and then all of a sudden one of the friends will ask, “so how did you guys meet? Tell us the story!”

They have probably heard the story a thousand times – but they want to keep hearing it, because they want it to happen to them. They want this romance to happen to them. Women are all about this great romance.

You know, I get asked this question all the time from women: “David, what is the one thing I can do to make a guy want me more on a date but won’t make me seem overly desperate?” The answer to that question is definitely yes. I also know that there are a lot of guys who are going to thank me for writing this blog.

I have to credit this blog to a woman that I’ve been hanging out with recently – I’d love to take credit for everything funny that is in it, but I just can’t.

Don’t Overtry BY David Wygant The following is a talk I gave to a client at a weekend bootcamp. This is a great example of my direct one-on-one coaching during bootcamps. Whenever you try too hard in life to get people to like you, you push everybody away. When you do this, you’re too over [...]

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