Are you always looking at your iPhone wondering where this loyal man of yours is tonight?

Are you one of the many women that have gone out with a cheater? How many times have you been with somebody who has cheated on you, and you think it’s all about you?

And guys before you think this advice that you are about to read does not pertain to you.

Then flip the advice around and think maybe you could do more as well to keep your woman hot and satisfied.

Have you thought that maybe your bedroom skills are not what they should be?

Did you think that maybe if you were just a little more wild with him, that he wouldn’t have cheated on you?

Or did you think that maybe, if you didn’t break up with him and you gave him one more chance and acted a little crazier in bed, that he would never have cheated again?

The answer to all of the above is a resounding . . . maybe.

The first thing you need to do is to realize that men who cheat will always cheat. There are certain men that just love variety. One night they want a blond. The next night they want a brunette.

And no matter how good you are in bed, it just does not matter. The man that you’re with is a cheater. He likes variety, and there’s nothing you can do to change that!

The second part to the “maybe” answer is that there are things you can do to keep the man who is not necessarily a cheater from cheating:

1. Have an open discussion about what you like having done to you in bed and what he likes having done to him in bed. Spend one night a week pleasing each other in different ways than you did the week before.

2. If you’re not that great in bed, buy some books on how to please a man. Take a class on how to give a blow job. Seriously.

3. Learn to master the art of dirty talk. Dirty talk tends to turn most men on . . . and the dirtier you talk to him, the hotter he’s going to get.

4. If the two of you have trouble pleasing each other or you have trouble coming to orgasm with a man, masturbate in front of each other to show how both of you like to be touched and pleased.

These are some steps that will help you keep a man satisfied and which will prevent him from straying.

Not all men cheat, and there are a ton of women that cheat as well. Men are not sleeping with one super-slut that they just pass around from person to person. There are many, many women who are having affairs.

We’ll blog more about this another day . . . but if you are sick and tired of attracting all the WRONG men, and want this guy to be the LAST cheater you ever date – then you need to invest in my Art Of Attracting Men product which shows you how to stop attracting all the WRONG men, and start finding the RIGHT ones.

We’re getting to the real root of cheaters right now. You’ve been cheated on in the past.

If someone asks you what happened in your past relationship, is your answer something like this: “She was a great girl, but all of a sudden something happened and she started cheating on me. It was ridiculous. I don’t understand why she cheated on me. I did everything for her.”

Immediately, the person you’re saying this to is going to look at you and wonder what made that person cheat on you. When you’re cheated on, it means that there is something that’s not working between the two of you of which you are not aware.

To tell you the truth, I’ve never been cheated on, but I have cheated one time. I know exactly why I cheated on them. It was because the communication in our relationship was dead, over, done. I wasn’t happy anymore.

So if you tell someone on a first, second or third date that you’ve been cheated on, they’re going to really wonder about you. They are going to wonder why you didn’t realize why you were cheated on, and why you aren’t taking responsibility for your part in it.

A lot of people don’t understand that cheating is a two-way street. In order to push someone out the door to cheat, you must be pushing them one way or another.

There’s something that you’ve been doing in that situation. Maybe you were not aware of the person’s needs, wants, and desires. Maybe you wanted more out of the relationship than they did. It could be a number of different things.

So if you’ve been cheated on and someone asks you why that relationship ended, just say “It ended mutually” and leave it at that. As you get to know someone better, you can uncover the depth of your last relationships.

In the first couple of weeks, though, people are judging and looking and evaluating you. It’s not that you want to hide things, but you just want to get to know each other on a fresh face.

You don’t need to tell every negative detail of your past. You don’t need to dump everything about each other in the first few weeks. You want those first few weeks to really bond with each other, to build up the trust, so then you can talk about all that stuff later when you’re in a safe space with each other.

People are still judging in those first few weeks. So the next time someone asks you if you’ve ever been cheated on, just say “You know what? I have been, but it’s no big deal. I learned a lot from that. I really learned that my communication in that relationship wasn’t good and I take full responsibility for it.”

Take the high road in everything. Anytime you take the road of a victim, it means that you don’t know how to communicate properly with anybody else.

If you get cheated on, are you actually just as responsible as the person who did the cheating?

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Why? Why does it matter? California is broke, and this is on what it spends its money? I actually kind of like the footprints on the beach. It sort of makes it look like the moon at night.

Back when I was single and dating multiple women, I probably would have told that story three or four times in a week. Can you start to guess what I’m going to talk about in today’s podcast?

Yes, in today’s podcast I am going to talk about multiplicity. No, not multiple orgasms…but about dating multiple people.

I am going to talk about dating multiple people in a way you probably aren’t expecting. I am going to tell you not only how to manage dating multiple people, but why you should be doing that.

I am going to talk about why dating multiple people is one of the best ways to learn more about yourself and what you really want, and why it is the way you will end up dating the kind of people you have most been wanting to date.

This will be a really eye-opening podcast for many of you . . . and will change the way you think about (and the reasons you want to) date multiple people. Enjoy!

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By the way, if any of you have anything you’d like me to talk about in a future podcast, be sure to email me (david@davidwygant.com) and let me know! I’d love to hear from you.

Also, if you want to learn more about how to communicate with all the people you’re dating so that you can date multiple people in an enjoyable and stress-free way, be sure to check out my “Dating Principles For Great Relationships” product.

David: Life is about free choices. Jealousy is something that you have at 19 – but by the time you’re in your thirties, it’s something you will outgrow.

You have jealousy now because you haven’t experienced enough emotional things to realize that there is the freedom of choice.

If a woman you are dating breaks up with you and then sleeps with your friend, you have to realize that there was nothing you could do to prevent it. So why give emotions like jealousy and guilt any power?

When you give those emotions power, you’re giving life to someone else’s choice – not to anything that you can actually control.

If a girl chooses a friend over you, you have to be able to say to yourself, well, they must have better chemistry together than we do. Good for him and good for her.

You feel jealous only because you don’t have abundance mentality. Jealousy is an emotion that springs from the lack of the abundance mentality in your life.

I have no jealousy anymore. I remember when I would lose money in my business ventures, I would be jealous of my friends. But then I realized that they had made different choices and followed different paths.

I started embracing my friends’ success, and this got rid of the jealousy – I realized that I was where I was only because of the choices I’d made in my life.

Once I realized that, the abundance returned to my life.

It just works like that.

Have you thought that maybe your bedroom skills are not what they should be?

Did you think that maybe if you were just a little more wild with him, that he wouldn’t have cheated on you?

Or did you think that maybe, if you didn’t break up with him and you gave him one more chance and acted a little crazier in bed, that he would never have cheated again?

The answer to all of the above is a resounding . . . maybe.

The first thing you need to do is to realize that men who cheat will always cheat. There are certain men that just love variety. One night they want a blond. The next night they want a brunette.

And no matter how good you are in bed, it just does not matter. The man that you’re with is a cheater. He likes variety, and there’s nothing you can do to change that!

The second part to the “maybe” answer is that there are things you can do to keep the man who is not necessarily a cheater from cheating:

1. Have an open discussion about what you like having done to you in bed and what he likes having done to him in bed. Spend one night a week pleasing each other in different ways than you did the week before.

2. If you’re not that great in bed, buy some books on how to please a man. Take a class on how to give a blow job. Seriously.

3. Learn to master the art of dirty talk. Dirty talk tends to turn most men on . . . and the dirtier you talk to him, the hotter he’s going to get.

4. If the two of you have trouble pleasing each other or you have trouble coming to orgasm with a man, masturbate in front of each other to show how both of you like to be touched and pleased.

These are some steps that will help you keep a man satisfied and which will prevent him from straying.

Not all men cheat, and there are a ton of women that cheat as well. Men are not sleeping with one super-slut that they just pass around from person to person. There are many, many women who are having affairs.

We’ll blog more about this another day . . . but if you are sick and tired of attracting all the WRONG men, and want this guy to be the LAST cheater you ever date – then you need to invest in my Art Of Attracting Men product which shows you how to stop attracting all the WRONG men, and start finding the RIGHT ones.